Categories
Family Finances Resources TRC

April is National Fair Housing Month

One of the things that I wanted my blog to be is a learning resource. I picked the month of April to launch my business because it is a month full of National Recognition that is so closely related to the work that I do. Today I want to recognize the first one.

On April 11th, 1968, one week after the assassination of Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr, who was monumental in the passing of the 1964 Act, President Lyndon B. Johnson signed an extension to the Civil Rights Act of 1964 to include the Fair Housing Act. It prohibits discrimination in the sale, renting, or financing of housing based on race, color, religion, national origin, sex, disability, and family status.

Fair Housing Poster from Hud.gov

While the Act was passed 53 years ago, we know that we still have a long way to go to stand up against discrimination in the housing market. Not only are Blacks and other People of Color disproportionately disadvantaged when it comes to homeownership, we often run into lower appraisal values, not having enough cash for a downpayment (due to lower wages), and not being able to be competitive in a seller’s market.

In 2020, according to Redfin.com, only 44% of Black American’s owned a home compared to 74% of white Americans. A recent story out of California tells the story of the Austin’s and their struggle to obtain homeownership. They had to purchase a home off-market from another Black family just to reach their dream. They then put over $400,000 into the home that was built in the 1960s. They added a new level, replaced the floor and appliances, built a deck, adding in total an additional 1,000 square feet to their property.

When they got it appraised, the older white appraiser valued the property for $989,000, only $100,000 more than the property was previously appraised for BEFORE the renovations. After fighting to get a second appraisal, they decided to trick the system. A white friend of theirs offered to pose as the wife, removed all family photos, and replaced them with her family pictures. That appraisal came in at $1,482,000—about $500,000 more than the one done just a month prior.

The National Association of Realtors says that Black applicants are rejected for loans three times more than white applicants. Is there any surprise that there is so much of a gap in wealth in this country between races? Homeownership is one of the ways to gain generational wealth and legacy, and these facts are just one of the reasons that Black American’s are far behind their white counterparts in the journey to wealth.

If you are a professional, I recommend signing up for the National Fair Housing Training Academy (I am) and doing your part to help fight against discriminatory practices in the housing industry. As a financial counselor, my goal is to help you achieve your dreams, and if homeownership is how that happens, then let’s make it happen! I’ll be sharing more tips and resources over on my social media pages for the business: Instagram and Facebook. Coming soon to our website is a resource and referral list that will include housing professionals to help your dream come true.

“Fair Housing Opens the Doors” video produced by the National Fair Housing Training Academy.

For more information, visit Hud.gov and National Fair Housing Training Academy.

Categories
Journey to Entrepreneurship

Journey to Entrepreneurship: Update

I planned on doing an update to this series a month or two ago.  And while I had it written, I didn’t get around to publishing it.  But it is July, and we currently have half a year left, and I realized that a lot of my goals fell away thanks to some things going on in my life.  But I want to share with you why that isn’t necessarily a bad thing.

What’s Been Going On?

COVID…Civil Unrest…Medical Issues…Schedule Changes.  What isn’t going on at the moment?  While I won’t spend a ton of time talking about the current pandemic or how a majority of the country somehow is just figuring out that racism still exists, I will say it has impacted our household a ton.  I have an autoimmune disorder and have no clue if my body could handle the virus, so I am 100% onboard with staying in my house 24/7.  My husband is military and is considered essential, so he has no choice but to go to work.  He has also had a vast schedule change that impacts how we manage our household.  And we are Black, so racism is an everyday thing for us.  We live in the south and in a fairly whitewashed area where, unfortunately, we always have to be aware of those around us.  And whether it is the stress of all of that or completely random, I have been dealing with some medical issues that have wreaked havoc on my routines, sleep, and appetite.  To say I have been struggling is an understatement.

BUT…I recognized all of this and knew that meant that I had to make adjustments.  My health is obviously a priority to me, so that means I needed to focus on fixing those issues first.  My marriage is a priority, so with my husband’s schedule change, we had to work really hard to ensure we stayed on the same page and connected.  That meant that some things became less of a priority to me.  You may have noticed a lot of social media breaks from me.  My page tends to focus on my faith and my life as a housewife and how I manage all the things.  I give you a glimpse into how I plan, cleaning and cooking, my bible study and sermon notes, budgeting, and creating a business.  All I have had time for has been my Bible study, so I continue to post that.  There are some things that because I have built automated routines in place, I didn’t have to worry about like our budgeting.  Others, like cooking and the business, just haven’t been happening because those are things that I have the ability to put down for the moment.

Business Update

So while some of my goals for the business had to be pushed off, I was able to do some things that either took a quick moment or set me up for future projects.  For example, I established our LLC.  Before my focus shifted, I worked with a Career Manager, Business Coach, and Business Consultant who were very helpful in helping me streamline my thoughts.  I wrote a bit about them and will be sharing those resources on the blog.  I decided to continue my education by getting a certificate that I feel will further help me in my journey to become an entrepreneur.  I also decided to start the process of gaining an accreditation for an area that I have been interested in since I was a teenager.  Both start this year, and I will be sharing what I can from them.

What’s Next?

When I started this journey, I set a plan for myself.  2020 was going to be all about learning.  Taking courses, learn how to create and do new things, and get better at things I have current experience with.  2021 was going to be the year that I focused on launching and building our business(es).  And 2022 and beyond would be all about growing our business(es) and legacy.  With half the year left, I am still sticking to that plan.  The certificate and accreditation fit nicely into those plans as I will be taking classes and courses this year.  Next year, I will continue to gain experience using our actual business.  I’ve set a goal to do at least one thing a month for the rest of the year to move the business forward.  I’m hoping I will do more, but I wanted to make sure I started with an attainable goal.  The plan is also to write at least one JTE update a month.  I promised to bring you along on the journey, and I want to make sure I continue to do that.

Categories
Resources Writing

Hope Writer’s Recap Part 2

Two weeks ago, I had the pleasure of signing up for 15 Tuesday Teaching’s from Hope*Writers, and last week, I shared the first half of the teachers.  I included what stuck out to me the most and what I plan on using to create action steps and execute here on the blog and in future endeavors.  Here is the rest of the teachers and what I was able to learn from them.

Erin Loechner was another author that I was not familiar with before I started to watch these teachings.  Emily noted that her blog was a great example of voice.  What I think most will find fascinating about Erin is her current schedule.  She gets up every morning at 2 am (she goes to bed at 6 pm) and writes.  This is what works best for her and her husband during this season with small children.  What I love about this is, it isn’t traditional.  She isn’t trying to force her family to fit into “normal,” and they created their standard.  Also, only 2-3% of what she writes actually gets published (on her blog or in her book).

Regular advice that you receive is to write what you know.  But once I started writing what I wanted to know, I started to uncover my voice.

Writing vs. publishing requires a different person.  Writing is filling, theraputic, quiet.  Publishing is emptying and promotional.

Another newbie to me, Jennifer Allwood, seems to be owning her Facebook platform.  She helped me understand how
important it is to understand who your ideal client is.  She advocates for having what she calls a business therapist.  And she is very vocal about realizing that you can’t and shouldn’t do it all and to not be afraid to hire help.  And that is in your business and your home. I enjoyed how she broke down her justification for hiring a housekeeper.  She paid $150 for 6 hours and was able to work on something that earned her $100-200 an hour.  For her, paying the $150 for 6 hours was worth it when she made $600-$1200 in that same 6 hours.

Just by being fully me all the time, I never have to worry about pretense.

We have a responsibility to a calling and fear does not release us from that calling.

Deidra Riggs was someone else that I was not familiar with before this week, but what I enjoyed the most was her openness about her struggles with her last book.  She speaks about the business side and, unfortunately, the politics behind selling a book.  A well-known author endorsed her book, and there were plans to put that endorsement on the front cover.  Until that well-known author came out that she was divorcing her husband and marrying a woman.  Her publishers, recognizing that vendors wouldn’t carry the book with the endorsement, removed it.  That didn’t sit well with Deidra and has impacted sales and promotion.

Her agent advised her that a book multiples the ministry of your message.

Was this the moment for it? Maybe not.  Maybe it’s moment has yet to come. (In regards to her second book and her disappointments with it)

Believe in your heart who you are.  And then be who you say you are.

My favorite quote from all 15 teachings: But I’m also an introvert so I don’t try very hard.

I know I keep repeating this (and probably will one more time), but I wasn’t aware of who Crystal Paine was before the day I watched her teaching.  But she gave some really good insight on blogging since that is her primary platform.   I am looking forward to incorporating some of her points into the blog here.

 

You want to solve a problem, meet a need or provide hope.  But try to do all three.

Focus on and finish one thing at a time.  Test it out for about three months.

People want to connect with a person not a platform.

Study others who are doing it well.

Now, Sally Clarkson, I am familiar with.  Not only is she the author of dozens of books, but she is the mother of Sarah Clarkson, who is also a writer.  She spoke a lot about the changes in her message and publishing over the years.  She focuses on adapting to her audience and not being afraid to bring in a new audience and ways to connect with them (for example, Millenials).

 

Really good writing comes out of our own heart conviction.

If people took their eyes off of other people, they would have more authentic voices.

You can’t face your reader and critic at the same time.  To speak to one is to turn your back on the other one.

Don’t dispise the days of small things. (an adaption of Zachariah 4:10)

This author, S.D. Smith, I couldn’t connect with at all.  It appears he may be the author of children or teen fiction.  And while I may not be his target audience, I was hoping that I could get something out of his teaching.  But unfortunately, I didn’t get anything from it but maybe one sentence.  He seemed to be all over the place with his message and talked a lot about who he was and specifics about his books.

When you look for light, darkness will be there.  You are going to have to fight.

Another blogger turned author who I was introduced to, Kendra Adachi spoke a lot about the mistakes that she made along the way.  She also touched on somethings that she did right that was pure blessings.  She gave pointers like always including an email sign up even when your website is still “coming soon.” I also loved the landing page for her website, where it lists all the different ways to connect with what she offers without you having to hunt for it.

Don’t be afraid to pivot.

Don’t let your inability to explain where you’ve been suck or what you are doing, keep you from moving forward.

The last and final teacher is probably the best known.  Beth Moore is the author of so many books and Bible studies, including a few that sit on my bookshelves.  The best part of this whole interview was the fact that Beth Moore didn’t know she was on camera until maybe the last 5 minutes of a hour-long teaching.  She assumed that only Emily could see her.  I don’t recall ever hearing Beth Moore teach before, but she is so comical and felt so down to earth.  She is a daily journaler (which she calls her private relationship with Christ), who has her own journals coiled with the paper she likes at her local supply store.  She is also an avid tweeter and broke down when she knows something is a tweet, blog post, teaching, or a book/bible study.

I belong to Jesus.  Everything else, I don’t need to understand.

The best writing is understanding we are traveling.  Write from where we are now, as we are becoming.

If it is a short term passion, it is probably a tweet (if words only) or a facebook post.  If it goes away, that is it.  But if it keeps buring, write a blog.  If it stays, speak on it.  If still burining, it will be a book or Bible study.

Ask God to manipulate my desires.  Take my heart and take over my passions.

It all gets said to God but not always written or spoken.

I don’t know a lot but I want to share with someone else what I do know and what I have learned in case it is a help to them.

The kitchen is hot.  If you can’t take the heat, this ain’t the kitchen you want.

You gon’ on ahead.  I’m not going there with you.  But I’ll be here when you get back.

When dealing with extreme pain: when you are still hemoraging is a great time for journaling.  It is not the time for publishing.

The midpoint of our pain is a beautiful place to write.

If you can’t tell, I thoroughly enjoyed the 15 teachings that Hope*Writers gave away for free during this time of social distancing while dealing with the coronavirus.  I can’t wait to start implementing what I learned!  I thought long and hard about possibly joining their membership, but while I enjoyed the teachings and saw the value, I’m not sure if I am that serious enough of a writer at the moment to justify the cost.  I would love it if they had an option to get access to the 80+ teachings they currently have in their library.  Leave me a comment down below on what your favorite quote was from the teachings I shared today or let me know if you are a member of Hope*Writers.

*All images from Hope*Writer’s website and emails.

Categories
Journey to Entrepreneurship

The Journey to Entrepreneurship

I’m letting you in on a secret that I haven’t shared with many people.

If you have checked out some of my previous posts, you may know that after leaving my career in corporate America, I decided to focus on home more and start a business.  I took a break for the holidays and my birthday and I never went back to it.

I, Tanisha Rhenáe, a driven, organized planner just up and quit her professional organizing business because something was missing.

One of the reasons I took my Sabbatical was to come to terms with feeling like a failure.  Even though it was my choice, it was still super embarrassing.

 

While out of town, I realized that I needed to do something.  I thought one of the places where I lost my way was leaving my job.  So I started to apply for different positions. Lots and lots of jobs.  And crickets.  No phone calls. No interviews.  Nothing. I’m not saying this to brag, but I have never had this problem before.  I’ve always been able to get at least an interview for jobs that I wanted.  I’ve been headhunted multiple times. I’ve been offered positions just off of my work ethic alone.  So to go months and months without hearing anything, my confidence was crushed.  Was it because I wasn’t traditionally employed for a while? Was this because I was a military spouse? (Besides the fact that we have been stationed in the same place his whole career #Blessed, I was also with my last company for six years.  #Loyalty) What was I doing wrong?

I prayed.

I cried.

Prayed some more.

Cried some more.

I worked with people on my resume.  I gave up on my restrictions and applied for all types of positions and industries.  I heard nothing.  I asked God what I was doing wrong?  What did He want me to do? A whole year later, I wrote this post about affirmations and manifestation.  So I started to put it into practice.  I prayed for God’s will.  I repeated that the right job, for me, would come to me.  I talked positively about the job hunt.  I spoke about myself using titles that I was applying to.  I prayed over each application.  I shared with friends so they could pray.  And as much as I try and stay away from the “famous” scriptures, it is still scripture, so when God dropped Romans 8:28 in my heart, I had to listen.

We know that all things work together for the good of those who love God, who are called according to his purpose. (CSB)

And then, I had a couple of friends deliver the same message whenever I would get discouraged.  So I asked God to open the doors that were meant for me and close the doors that weren’t.  To check my heart to make sure I didn’t end up with an Ishmael instead of an Issac because I was forcing something that wasn’t in His will.

Two things happened.

I received an email about an entrepreneur certificate I applied for a year before that I completely forgot about, saying registration was open.  I signed up to start taking classes in the second half of this year.

Next, I heard back from what looked like my dream job.  Y’all…this job was .04 miles from my front door.  I was hype! I made it all the way through, and my final step was canceled.  My would-be boss interviewed someone he loved and didn’t see the need to keep going.  I was heartbroken!

Then God and I had another pow-wow.  What the heck was I supposed to do?

Do I go back to work?

Do I stick with being a housewife?

Do I go back to being an entrepreneur?

Do I go to school?

While confused, I kept speaking positively.  I kept praying.  I shared my fears with Chris, and he was able to pray and give me comfort as well.  He kept reminding me that the right opportunity would head my way.  So I kept applying for jobs.  We agreed that if I didn’t find anything by the time the certificate classes start, I would put the job hunt on hold until next year.  That gave me about four months to keep looking.

While applying for yet another job, I had to register first.  But by the time I finished that process, something at the house distracted me, and I never got around to applying.  I received an email from a Career Manager from that site to connect.  We talked for a bit, and I knew she must have thought I was crazy because I was so tired of the process and just all over the place.  I was honest and told her I had no clue what I wanted to do and gave her some background information. She told me to sit down and write out what I wanted my next 30 days, 60 days, 90 days, and one year to look like.  She would put some feelers out there about schools and jobs, and we would come back together the following week.

To learn more about her and the company, I went back to the site and realized that this was a local career network for military spouses! In addition to the help of the career manager, they also had different trainings available.

This conversation, looking at this site, and her assignment triggered the flood gates to open.

I remembered all the courses I signed up for but didn’t have the time to take because I was so focused on finding any job.  And with the Coronavirus, I wasn’t able to leave my house anymore, so I had even more time.  Plus, so many companies started to offer their resources for free to help deal with social distancing.  And the type of jobs I was looking for stopped hiring as they dealt with the pandemic and transitioning to remote work.

This situation made me realize how many people are stuck in their spot without any other options.

How many people just were not prepared for a significant change in their day to day.

What could have been done differently?

How could I help?

Then it hit me…I wanted to be an entrepreneur so I could help people.  I’m passionate about learning and sharing resources, and it seems people need that now more than ever!

I met with the Career Manager again, and before she could say a word, I told her that I wanted to be an entrepreneur, but I needed help!  She laughed. I told you she probably thought I was crazy because I went from looking for jobs for the past year and possibly going back to school in one week to owning my own business the next.  But the reason she laughed was that she just so happened to talk to a local business consultant earlier and I popped into her mind to connect us!

Y’all…Do you see how God works?

God also connected me with a friend that is a business coach that understood my struggle with being multi-passionate and wanting to be an entrepreneur.

My blog has always been about me documenting my journey of growth.

So as I figure out what I want to do and how to do, I want to bring you along. Because I know that I am not the only one who is in this situation, and I absolutely love sharing what I learn.

I’ll talk about the courses I take, what I do to build my confidence and get over the fear that I feel and how I still plan to prioritize my relationship with God, my husband, and my home.

I’m scared, excited, and nervous all at the same time.  But this blog post was the first step, so cheers to accomplishing that!

Categories
Resources Writing

Hope Writer’s Recap Part 1

This past week, Hope*Writer’s was one of the companies that offered some of their resources for free while we have been practicing social distancing.  They gave everyone that signed up access to 15 of their Tuesday Teaching’s, which they said were handpicked by their community as the best of the best.

I’ve heard of Hope*Writer’s from their founder Emily P. Freeman, author of The Next Right Thing.  It is a membership service described as “a community of working writers dedicated to the success and creativity of each member.”  I’ve always been interested in it but don’t consider myself a serious enough writer to pay the $47 a month to join.

I learned quite a bit from the teachers this week and wanted to share with you some of my notes.  I plan on creating some action steps and executing them here on the blog and in future endeavors.

Jo Saxton

I had never heard of Jo Saxton, but immediately after watching her teaching, I went right to her social media to follow her.  Her leadership skills were evident in her speaking, and she was so down to earth.  Here are a few of my favorite things from what she said.

Your passions arrive before the work does.

There is a colloboration even in the book you wrote yourself.

If you want to level up your leadership, you need to build your village (relational and professional).

You need two sets of people.  People who give you roots that support and encourage and are a relational investment that gives you the courage to write.  And people who give you wings who actually help you get things done and help you build the career.

When I was starting out, I had opportunities because other leaders got out of the way.  Those smaller amounts were blessings in my beginnings.

Jeff Goins

Jeff Goins was another author I had not had the pleasure of knowing beforehand.  What was interesting about his interview was that he is venturing into the ghostwriting arena, and he named some pretty big names who are ghostwriters as well, like Ryan Holiday.  Some of my favorite advice from him was less about being a writer and more on how to be a mentee.

I end things so I can begin the next thing.

The best deadlines are honest deadlines.

Assume the future you is lazier than the current you and you will never be disappointed.

A question from Seth Godin that he uses, “Why can’t you just do it until it stops being fun?”

If you want to get into anything, you have got to fall in love with the word “yes”.  Yes, I can do that and here’s how.  And then find a way to make it work.

Any time you are meeting with someone who you preceive their time is more valuable than yours: 1. always take notes and 2. send an email immediately saying here is what I got out of the meeting.  Then follow up once you have done it.

The only thing I know how to do reasonably well is not quit.

I’m free to succeed because I don’t need the success.

You cannot love something you are trying to control because control is about fear and fear and love does not go together.

Katherine Reay

Now Katherine Reay is someone I was familiar with.  I read her book, The Printed Letter Bookshop.  While I have no plans to be a traditional author in the sense of writing a book, I know if I ever do, it will most likely not be fiction, which is her genre.  And while I didn’t get as much from her teaching as some of the others, it was interesting to see how she structures her week to get her writing done.

You cannot create and edit at the same time.

Get the words out as fast as you can on the paper without your editorial mind.  Then go in and edit it.

Annie F. Downs

Annie F. Downs is one of the more prominent names (at least to me) that was one of the speakers.  Her book, 100 Days to Brave, has been all over the place.  Including my bookshelf even though I haven’t read it yet.  She gave a lot of details on creative ways to get your books in people’s hands and how to start speaking.  And while again, I don’t plan on being a book author or a speaker, it was great to learn the business behind her brand.

The actual thing you want to do forever is being you.

You need to have a thesis statement.

Every January make a yes or no list.

The boundary lines have fallen for me in pleasant places. (Psalm 16:6 CSB)

Not all callings are created equallly; not all personalities are the same. – Emily

Kelly Minter

Before this week, I knew that Kelly Minter was a Bible teacher, but I can’t remember where for the life of me I heard of her from.  I am just going to assume social media right now because it doesn’t appear she was a speaker at the Enjoy God’s Word Bible Conference.  The funny thing is, when I look at all the speakers and who I think I could closely relate to work-wise, it is Kelly.  I love Bible reading and studying and could see myself one day doing a Bible Study.  I may have been so wrapped up in what she was saying I didn’t take many notes.  But she gave some pointers that I will share.

To get your insight, follow your questions and start digging.  Look at the cross references before commentaries.

Look around at people who are already doing it well.

Be a student of Bible studies.

Use a pilot group to review your studies.

Michele Cushatt

Michele Cushatt is another author that I hadn’t heard of before her session.  She wrote what appears to be a deeply personal memoir and touched on how to write about hard topics and when to share.  This was especially important to me because my blog is personal, yet it is crucial to know what not to share with the world.

People don’t connect with perfection, they connect with pain

It’s always the right time to write; it’s not always the right time to share.

When trying to determine how much to share, ask yourself the following: What’s my objective? Who is my audience? How much time do I have? What parts of my story is necessary to my objective’s? Do I have permission to tell this?

Ashlyn Carter

YouTube introduced me to Ashlyn Carter a while ago but more so because of her planning and productivity videos.  I knew she was a writer, but that isn’t the content I paid attention to.  Man, oh man, did I waste my time.  I learned the most information from Ashlyn’s session. So much so that it’s been hard to break it down to a couple of lines like the others.  Ashlyn is a copywriter, and I realized that gave her a unique insight into the blogging world, social media captions, and newsletters.  All things I would love to learn about and get better at.  There was just so much information that I am hoping to put into practice right away.  And I have immediately subscribed to her YouTube channel and can’t wait to binge-watch!

Use formula’s: Problem, Agitation, Solution

The word “YOU” can be so powerful.

Listen to what people want and then say it back to them.

Facts don’t care about your feelings.

Alright, I am going to end this post here cause it’s getting long!  Stay tuned for the final post outlining the other speakers and teachers!

*All images from Hope*Writer’s website and emails.

Categories
Book Review Finance Book Review

Book Review: The Legacy Journey by Dave Ramsey

Title: The Legacy Journey

Author: Dave Ramsey

Genre: Finance/Christian

Publisher: Ramsey Press

Rating:Related imageRelated imageRelated imageRelated imageRelated image

Dave Ramsey is a legend in the Christian finance world.  With critical terms like baby steps, emergency funds, and sinking funds, almost everyone has heard something about what he teaches, even if not directly from him.  But if you are like me and have taken years to save that emergency fund, pay your debt off a time or two, and even make it through saving up 3-6 months worth of expenses, you are probably wondering, What is next?  So as someone who has not only followed Dave Ramsey’s baby steps but has co-lead multiple Financial Peace University classes, I wanted to know what the other side looked like.  That is what The Legacy Journey is about.  What does building wealth and giving really look like?  Dave Ramsey not only goes through those details but also provides the biblical background on why and how God has called us to build wealth and give.

My Thoughts:

One of the first things that jumped out at me about this book was how often Ramsey backed up his principles with Scripture.  And not only pulling one verse to push his ideas, but he really took the full context of multiple passages and then created his principles.  It was evident the amount of time that Ramsey took studying and actually living out what he preached.  I was thankful that he didn’t take too much time to rehash the lessons from his previous books (which covers all the baby steps in detail but more so focuses on baby steps 1 through 3). You get brief backgrounds on his history of becoming a millionaire and then having to file bankruptcy and build his wealth again God’s way.  You get plenty of examples of the millionaires and billionaires that he has spoken with and how they can focus on giving once they reached those statuses.  And I know sometimes it can seem like we are way far off from being a millionaire and for sure a billionaire, but Ramsey gives what I like to call real people examples as well that lets us know these goals are possible.

Ramsey starts with the reminder that we don’t truly own anything, including our wealth.  God is the owner, and He entrusts us to steward and manage money properly.  Ramsey then introduces the NOW-THEN-US-THEM concept.  NOW is all about budgeting and taking care of your family.  THEN is when you move on to focusing on your future by saving, investing, and paying off more substantial assets like your house.  US is about preparing your family for legacy building and turning that future planning into creating generational wealth.  THEM is community and giving focused.  He also tackles the debate on whether Christians should be wealthy or not.  He talks about biblical rumors that are generally thrown into the discussion (like money is the root of all evil…no, the love of money is the root of all evil – see 1st Timothy 6:10). He gives statistics showing how even though Jews are a small part of the US population, they make up a good part of the Forbes 400 list (2% compared to 25-30%).  What are they doing?  Following the biblical principles to gaining wealth and being generous once they have it.  Ramsey reminds us of all the wealthy men and women in the Bible and shows how God was the reason for their blessings and wealth.

Our mindset on wealth and how we teach our children about wealth are also focused on in this book.  Everything from pride, humility, and gratitude is touched on.  Not only do we have to plan what to do with our money so we can build wealth, but we also need to be intentional with what we say and show to our children.  If we plan to pass down our wealth to them as the Bible says, we need to ensure that they manage it well also so they can pass it down.  Ramsey outlines how to balance the biblical command of being a hard worker with also being content with what we have and where we are in life.  Does that mean we shouldn’t strive for more?  No, but it does mean that we should enjoy what we have and be thankful to God for giving it to us.  Setting goals and our work are essential as well.  Ramsey is a firm believer that anyone can become a millionaire with hard work and planning.  He also believes in positive thinking and speaking life, which was a huge confirmation for me when I was questioning affirmations and manifesting as a Christian.  (head to this post to see more on that)  You will learn why nonprofits shouldn’t get all your money, why wills are important, why it’s okay only to pay what you owe in taxes and how to create a family constitution that will be your guide throughout this legacy journey.

Another principle that was new for me was the idea of ratios.  Instead of setting specific dollar amounts for your overflow, which is where you will find your additional giving, investing, and living, you set ratios for those areas.  So basically, once you start getting towards the end of the baby steps (most likely baby step 7 – Build wealth and give), its time to decide what amount you can reasonably live on.  I’ll use one of his examples that seem more realistic.  You make $80,000 a year as a family but decide you can live on $50,00 a year.  Now you would apply the ratios to the remaining $30,000.  As a believer, you are giving 10% as a tithe.  You would then decide what percentage you are comfortable with for additional giving (whether that is to the church or charity).  He also recommends planning for taxes.  A part of your overflow should also go to investing.  And finally what he calls extra lifestyle which is where you get to enjoy your money.  For a family that has an income of $10,000,000 a year, they decided they could live on $400,000 a year.  That leaves them with $9,600,000 in overflow.  Here is their ratio breakdown:

10% Tithe = $960,000

40% Taxes = $3,840,000

10% Extra Giving = $960,000

35% Investing = $3,360,000

5% Extra Lifestyle = $480,000

100% = $9,600,000

You can see that with the ratios, no matter what your overflow amount is, as long as you are comfortable with your percentages, you are covered.

Ramsey also walks us through four areas using three lenses that, when we help strengthen these foundations, can help prepare us for wealth.  The four areas are your personal life, your marriage, your children, and other relationships. The three lenses all four areas will go through are ownership, magnification, and community.  The first and foremost thing when it comes to building your wealth, as Ramsey has already shared, is managing yourself.  Reminding yourself that you don’t have any ownership and that it all belongs to God. Getting more money will only magnify who and what you already are.  And the community you build at this stage should include a teacher, a student, and a friend.  (A bit of a tangent – here is where Ramsey talks about him and a group of his 12 closest friends that meet every week for an hour and a half to chat, check-in with each other, study the Bible or read books.  And they have done this for over a dozen years.  Can I just say, I added this to my prayer list?)  Secondly, if you are married, you are a team and as one flesh need to do this wealth-building thing together.  To avoid the focus being on “me” and “mine” in these discussions, you again are reminding each other that it all belongs to God.  Everyone knows that finances are a significant cause of marriages going astray.  Having more money will not change that aspect.  Building a solid foundation in your marriage first helps alleviate many problems in advance.  It’s essential to build a community that consists of other couples at your financial level and maintain those life long friendships that you have created.  Thirdly, teach, and show your kids how to manage the wealth that hopefully, you will be passing on to them.  Teach them early on that all things belong to God.  Your children’s personalities will just be magnified when they receive and build wealth.  And it’s just as vital for them to have positive influences in their community as it is for you.  Lastly, your other relationships will be impacted by your increase in wealth, and its best to plan for that.  You do not owe anyone anything just because they are your family.  And people’s real personalities come out, the more money there is to be spread around. Setting boundaries will impact your community, but don’t worry, those friends you built at your wealth level will be able to support you through this.

I challenge you to turn this book into a Bible study on generosity and biblical wealth.  Take time to really soak in the principles and the Scriptures behind them.  Invite God into your finances and allow the Holy Spirit to lead you.  This book has led to many prayers and conversations with my loved ones and friends. While it may be difficult to imagine in the early baby steps, I do still recommend everyone reads this book as it will help with motivation and seeing the end goal.  Biblical and generation wealth are gifts that I want to plan to give my future children and their children.  This book did its job to help me better understand what that looks like and how to accomplish it.  And for that reason, it gets 5-stars from me.

Categories
Down The TBR Hole

Down the TBR Hole #221 – 240

Welcome to Down the TBR Hole #221-240!  What is Down the TBR Hole?  It is where I grab 20 books from my insanely long TBR list on Goodreads and decide if I am keeping or removing the books.  Need to catch up?  Click here to go to the previous post.  As a reminder, here are the rules:

I think this is the first week ever that I am starting with the same number I ended with in the last post.  I’m proud of myself, but I am also struggling because I am not reading books on my TBR list as I should be.  If you follow me on Instagram, you would have seen previously that I am on both a Kindle Unlimited and Black Romance kick right now.  And I haven’t taken the time to add any books that I want to read on my TBR.  I just read them. Kicking off this week with 4,657 books on my TBR list.  Let’s get started.

 

 

 

1. Financially Fearless: The LearnVest Program for Taking Control of Your Money by Alexa Von Tobel

I would love to learn more about this 50/20/30 plan they have, so I am keeping this one.

 

 

 

 

 

2. Live It, Love It, Earn It: A Woman’s Guide to Financial Freedom by Marianna Olszewski

I’ll probably be keeping all the finance books because it is a passion of mine, and I could learn all day long about this topic.  It’s also a plus that it’s a female author.  Keeping this one.

 

 

 

 

 

3. The Laws of Money, The Lessons of Life: 5 Timeless Secrets to Get Out and Stay Out of Financial Trouble by Suze Orman

One of the original people I started to follow when it came to finances (a true OG).  Keeping her on the list.

 

 

 

 

 

4. MONEY Master the Game: 7 Simple Steps to Financial Freedom by Tony Robbins

I’ve heard of Tony Robbins as a motivational speaker but not in the financial world.  But I love that it appears he did his research by reaching out to the experts to write this book. I am keeping this one.

 

 

 

 

 

5. Smart Women Finish Rich: 9 Steps to Achieving Financial Security and Funding Your Dreams by David Bach

I’m not a fan of men who write books for women.  So I am removing this one.

 

 

 

 

 

 

6. The Richest Man In Babylon by George S. Clason

This is one of those classic books but one that I don’t mind reading.  I am keeping this one.

 

 

 

 

 

7. Your Money and Your Man: How You and Prince Charming Can Spend Well and Live Rich by Michelle Singletary

Another OG in the financial world for me.  It’s a major plus that she is a woman of color because until recently, I wasn’t seeing anyone that looked like me in the “famous” financial world (think Dave Ramsey and Suze Orman).  I am keeping this book.

 

 

 

 

 

8. Spend Well, Live Rich by Michelle Singletary

Another one from Michelle Singletary and I have had this book on my list for so long.  I am keeping this one.

 

 

 

 

 

9. Listen, Love, Repeat: Other-Centered Living in a Self-Centered World by Karen Ehman

I believe once upon a time, I was very others-centered.  I regularly did for others, helped others, and put others first.  Somewhere along the way, I gave that up and became super all about me.  There has to be some balance I can achieve.  So I am keeping this one.

 

 

 

 

10. Beyond Jabez: Expanding Your Borders by Bruce Wilkinson

Okay, so apparently this book is a follow up to his original book, Prayer of Jabez (which is also on my list).  Both books are about prayer but the first book, more specifically on 1st Chronicles 4:10.  I had to look up the verse, and it makes me wonder why out of all the prayers in the Bible, this is the one that was chosen to write a book on.  I am removing this one.

 

 

 

 

 

11. Sister Betty! God’s Calling You, Again! by Pat G’Orge-Walker

Oh my goodness, this seems like it would be a funny book.  I haven’t read too many funny Christian books (at least I think this is Christian fiction, but it is for sure African American fiction), so I am keeping this one.

 

 

 

 

 

12. Drawn to Destiny: How to Discover and Bring to Fruition Your True Purpose in Life by Yvonne Capehart

Hmm, so I think the purpose of my life books has come back around as an interest for me.  No telling if that will be the case by the time I get around to reading some of these, but for now, I will keep this one.

 

 

 

 

 

13. What Do I Know About My God? by Mardi Collier

One thing I like about this book is that it speaks about reading the Bible to get to know God.  The other thing is that it includes a study method.  I am keeping this one.

 

 

 

 

 

14. The Pursuit of God: The Human Thirst for the Divine by A.W. Tozer

One of the classics.  A.W. Tozer is one of those Christian authors I always see quoted.  And while I may have removed some of his other books until I know more about him, I know this particular book is one that I want to read.  I am keeping this one.

 

 

 

 

 

15. Let Me Be A Woman by Elisabeth Elliot

I was torn with this book.  While I would love to “learn what it means to be a woman” by starting “with the One who made her.”, a part of me is not wanting to limit my focus on just being a woman.  I’m going to go ahead and remove this one.

 

 

 

 

 

16. The Role of a Lifetime – The Script God Wrote for Women by Claudia Barba

Remember what I just said up above?  This is why I am torn.  Because this study seems more like a book that I would read about God’s role for women.  That means I am keeping it.

 

 

 

 

17. The 21 Tenets of Biblical Feminity: Transforming Girls into Young Ladies by Jerry & Sheryl Ross

My initial thought was, did Jerry throw his wife in as an author because he knew how wrong it was for a man to write about Femininity? Although I wouldn’t mind reading about this topic, it grinds my gears that the primary author is a man.  There are so many books by amazing women that write about this topic.  Removing this one.

 

 

 

18. The Choice is Yours: Life Happens. Walking with God is a Decision. by Terrie Chappell

From personal experience, I’ve learned recently that decision fatigue is a real thing.  I want not to have to make as many decisions on matters and want to be led more by God’s Spirit with things.  That’s also why a primary focus of the Year of Healthy is building habits. I am keeping this one.

 

 

 

 

19. Secrets of a Happy Heart by Debi Pryde

It was a little challenging to find the synopsis for this book, which tells me I added it from a recommendation list.  But it is a study of Titus 2.  That happens to be one of my favorite chapters in the Bible.  I am keeping this one.

 

 

20. What is Modesty by Michelle Brock

Most of my life, I have been a pretty conservative dresser.  I like to be comfortable and am not a fan of showing a ton of skin.  But the older I get, the more I wonder about the balance of being modest and being sexy (which I also enjoy).  I want to look and feel good.  And as much as I love a good pair of ball shorts and a tee, I also love a good dress.  I am keeping this one. (fun fact: I took a 2-second break after getting a message on IG and scrolled for a second and saw a modest apparel company advertised.  👋🏾 Big Brother 🤣)

 

Final Count: Removing 4; Keeping 16

TBR Down to 4,653

Another week’s list that has quite a few books about money and finances, which continue to go in line with January’s Year of Healthy theme.  Have you read any of these books? Did I make a mistake with removing or keeping one?

Categories
Family Finances Home

Our Monthly Budget Spreadsheet Part 2

I hope that you were able to get some valuable information from last week’s post on Part 1 of our Budget Spreadsheet.  I shared our Income, Giving, Saving, and Debt sections.  To read Part 1, head here.

While what I shared so far are some notable heavy hitters, I believe what I am going to share next are things that we most often have forgotten about.  The things that month to month may be a struggle to remember to pay, or they pop up unexpectedly.  Things like our household bills, auto-related expenses, and subscriptions.  These items for me are still sectioned off on the left side of my budget and grouped with their related bills.  On the right side, they are listed under our Bill Tracker, and most items have trackers to keep up with the day to day details.

Insurance

Our home insurance is connected to our mortgage, but we still have Life Insurance, Auto Insurance, and a Home Warranty to pay for.  If we had any supplemental medical insurance, we would include that here as well.  As a reminder, the left side of our budget consists of the following columns: Budgeted, Actual 1-15, Actual 16-31, Diff/Remaining, and Notes.

I am hiding the section of the Bill Tracker that I showed you last week, so you can still see the column headings.  But here is what the insurance section looks like.  Here I can document the exact Due Date, the exact Amount, the Method of payment (mail check, scheduled, autopay), which Paycheck it will come out of,  and if it’s Confirmed Paid/Payment Cleared.  Then I also have a Notes section here.

Utilities

Depending on where you live, if you rent or own, and what is included with your rent, this section could have less or more than what I have listed.  For us, we only have to worry about Electric, Security System, Internet, and our Cell Phone.  But for others, they may also include Cable, Water, and Trash.

Here is what the Utilities section looks like under the Bill Tracker.

Home

This is another section that will depend on your specific living situation.  In this Home section, we include almost everything else dealing with the home that hasn’t already been covered.  For us, that contains Groceries, Home Improvement (a sinking fund which I will discuss later), Yard Maintenance, Alarm Permit Renewal, Pest Control, Septic System Agreement, and Septic Permit.  A lot of these are quarterly or yearly payments and can be a considerable chunk out of a paycheck if it hits all at once.  So having it here in our budget allows us to put money towards it each paycheck.  For example, our Septic System Agreement can cost up to $450 a year.  So instead of paying all of that out of one check, we can set aside $37.50 from our “bill light” paycheck (meaning we don’t have a ton of bills coming out) each month.  Then when it is time to pay the agreement, we pull the $450 we have saved to pay it.

For the Bill Tracker section Home, I only have listed actual bills that need to get paid.  This section is essential, especially for the bills that are due quarterly and yearly.  When I created this sheet and going forward every year with my planning, I will include the estimated due date and amount here until I get the actual invoice/bill.  So, for example, I see last year in November is when we paid for our Septic Agreement.  It is yearly, so I know this year, in November, it will be due again.  My tracker will most likely show an 11/01 due date to help me plan out the monthly amount I need to save.  And then, when I get the invoice in September or October, I will update the exact due date and amount.

This section also includes the first of the specific trackers.  Probably like many of you, if there is one area of our budget that we are likely to overspend, it is on food.  I love eating, and I love cooking.  A couple of years ago, due to some health issues, I had to make a significant change in the type of food I was buying and cooking, which increased our food budget.  Knowing how easy it is to have this category get out of control, I knew I needed to create a Grocery Tracker.  One thing that has changed recently is I am going to the grocery store a couple of times a week (from 5 times in November to 12 times in December).  I am trying to reduce the amount of food we end up wasting because it stays hanging around for too long.  So each trip I document the Date I went, the Amount spent, the Place I went to, if the Payment Cleared and Notes. One difference is the total here gets automatically plugged into the Groceries category in the Home section of our budget. And that cell is merged because it doesn’t exactly matter much for me which paycheck we spend money on groceries. After all, it is something that is needed, no matter what.  Here is a sneak peek: Next month’s topic for Year of Healthy will be me going vegan (just for that one month).  This will be interesting to see how that impacts my budget as I always hear (and have experienced) that it is more expensive to eat healthily.  But cutting out meat and other animal products should help.

Auto

The auto section is where we have our Gas, Car Maintenance, and Car Registration listed.  I can also tell you that Driver’s License Renewal will get added to this section thanks to me thinking I lost mine last month and having to order a new only to find it later. Car Maintenance and Car Registration are both categories that we tend to save up for by putting money aside each paycheck mostly.  But due to the number of miles we drive each month, we have to get an oil change on at least one of the cars each month.  So at a minimum, we have to put that amount aside each month.

For the Bill Tracker, this is where we keep Car Registration #1 and Car Registration #2.  Ours come in the mail what feels like 3-4 months before they are due, and as someone who frequently forgets hers, it needed to be added to the budget.

Based on us having to get an oil change for one of our cars monthly, you may have concluded that one of our vehicles gets a lot of miles put on it, which means a ton of trips to the gas station.  While I can get away with going once a month, my husband sometimes has to go 2-3 times a week.  To keep up with how much gas is costing us each month and if we need to increase our budgeted amount, we track the Date, the Amount, the Place, which Car was filled up, if the Payment Cleared and Notes. This helps us keep an eye on which gas station tends to have the lowest price for gas, and we can plan better.

His/Her

His/Her section covers items that are specific to Chris or I.  This is where we will have our Blow $ allowance, Clothing allowance, and Personal Care (hair/nails/etc.).  You will notice that Chris has an Entertainment section, and I don’t.  At first, I thought that I don’t need one because Chris is more likely to go out to the movies with his friends, whereas if I go, it will be with him and will go in the next section we talk about.  But this would probably be a good spot for any books I buy. I usually put them under blow $.  I’ll try it for a month, and we will see.  Also, this is where I keep the categories for my Website Domain and Website Support.

Out of all of those categories, the only ones that go on our Bill Tracker pertains to my Website Domain and Website Support.

All others get tracked under the His and Her Trackers that we have.  Here we are monitoring the Date, Amount, Place, if the Payment Cleared and Notes.  This is only for transactions that we use our debit card for.  So if Chris and I decide to take out cash for our blow $, we wouldn’t include that info here.  But again, having this track the individual purchases helps with planning our budget for things like clothes or personal care that may not be a monthly thing or may have one month that has more spending than others (like when Chris needs a new uniform for work). Notes usually are where I will document which category the transaction would be apart of.

Sinking Funds

Another section that I picked up from following Dave Ramsey is Sinking Funds.  A sinking fund is a mini savings “account” that I may or may not use each month.  For us, this includes a Pet Fund, Date Nights, Eating Out, Gifts & Misc., Medical Expenses, and Home Goods.  Most of these are also areas that we can quickly cut if we need more wiggle room in our budget (except the Pet Fund and Medical Expenses).

We do have a Sinking Funds Tracker where we can track the specific transactions for all the sections mentioned above.  Here we document the Date, the Amount, the Place, which Sinking Fund it goes to, if the Payment Cleared, and Notes.  We also record our Home Improvement sinking fund transactions here as well from the Home Section.  Putting money aside in that fund monthly, helps me save for a larger project we do during the year like redoing our patio or my office.

Subscriptions

This is a newer section for us because when I was going through our bank transactions, these little suckers always came up unexpectedly because we didn’t plan for them.  While I usually would have generic categories here, I wanted to leave our exact subscriptions to help refresh your memory! This section took three months to build out because each month, I was saying, “Oh yea, we pay for that also.”  Some are monthly. Some are yearly.  Some we canceled for the moment but may use again.  Either way, it is all here, so I know that it comes from our budget.

I consider these bills, so they go under our Bill Tracker as well. Because most of these are on Autopay, it has been a lifesaver knowing when they are going to hit our account.  And seeing the number of subscriptions we had, made us do some cutting down.

Odd Balls/Summary

I keep this Odd Ball section just in case there is a random category that comes up that doesn’t fit any of the other sections or categories that I already have.  I have yet to use it, but just in case.  The final part of our monthly budget is our summary.  They are formulas that show what is left after our Actual Expenses are subtracted from our Actual Income and what is left after our Budgeted Expenses are deducted from our Budgeted Income.  This gives me a high-level view of if our budget is in the red for the month and lets me know I need to make some adjustments.

Here is a full view of what the Bill Tracker looks like.

What’s Next

Since Finances are such a big part of my life and super important to talk about when it comes to marriage and families, I am thinking about adding another month to focus on budgeting.  Maybe talk a bit about our goals, paying down debt, or even what it took to transition to a one-income family.  Let me know what you think about our Budget Spreadsheet and if you have any topics you want me to cover in the second month.

Categories
Family Finances Home

Our Monthly Budget Spreadsheet Part 1

If you have read any of the Year of Healthy posts from January, you learned that I have a love for budgeting.  You also learned that after taking a break from handling our household budget, I decided to break out a spreadsheet that helped us previously and update it a bit.  I wanted to share with you what our monthly budget spreadsheet looks like.  To get some more background information check out the previous posts here and here.

All In One Place

While this post will talk about our monthly budget, I do want to touch on what else is in this excel document.  I am a firm believer in having all you need in one place for almost every area of my life.  That is probably why I have a lint roller in the living room, laundry room, bedroom, bathroom, and the closet.  It just doesn’t make sense to me to have to go hunting for things.  So when it was time to update our budget spreadsheet, I knew I wanted it to include all things financial for us.  I may do a post later showing the specifics of what else is included but for now, here is a quick list:

  • PayDay Calendar
  • Mortgage Tracking (Statement Info, Date Pymts Posted, Escrow Details, Principal Balance, Interest Paid Balance, Estimated Equity)
  • Financial Goals (Monthly, Yearly, Lifetime)
  • Bank Transactions
  • Yearly Budget (until 2021)

Monthly Template

One thing I did while putting together the spreadsheet was to create a new tab for each month.  That way, when things come up that are in the future, I can already have a spot designated for it.  For example, if we decide to take a trip in May, I can increase our blow money for that month during my planning in January.  Each month already has my budget template, and I only need to update it if I make significant changes.

On the left side of the template is the actual budget.  I have our income and expenses sectioned off in groups because it makes it so much easier to see where our money is going.  I have a column labeled Budgetedand that is where I do my preplanning for what we expect to receive income-wise and spend expense wise. The next column is Actual 1-15. Any money actually received or spent will get documented under this column for the first half of the month.  The second half of the month is recorded under the column Actual 16-31.  The final two columns are Diff/Remaining, which I have set as a formula to let me know where we either overspent or underspent by subtracting our Actual from our Budgeted and lastly, a Notes column.

On the right side, is my trackers.  Each major group has one, so I can keep track of the totals and sometimes compare it to our goals.  Some of our sections, like gas, needs to be tracked in more detail than just saying we will spend $250 this month.  We can see which car is using more gas, etc.  This side also has our Debt Snowball information, our bill tracker with specifics such as due dates, how it was paid, and if it has cleared yet.

Let’s jump into the different sections and trackers.  *By the way, I include blank shots of our template.  I’m just not there yet with showing specific numbers on the intranets.  I hope you feel me!*

Income

This section in our budget is pretty self-explanatory.  Any income that comes into our household gets documented here.  That could be traditional employment, business income, rental/investment income, side hustle income, gifts.  It all goes into our income section.  Since it is just Chris and me, we have it noted as His Salary and Her Salary and then a couple of spots for Extra Income.  For this section and every section, we have a formula for the subtotal and also for the Diff/Remaining column.

On the right side, we do have a Paycheck Tracker.  Although it probably should be titled, Income Tracker.  But this is where I track the details of our income.  Specifically, the date received and what type it was.  If you expect to get rental income every month on the first, under Extra Income #1, you will document 1/1/20 with a Target amount of $1,000.  If that is what you actually get, you record the Actual amount to $1,000.  This is extremely helpful for those who don’t have a consistent income amount.  We expect our paycheck to be a certain amount every month, but different variables could have us receiving more.  I only want to budget off of what I know we will receive.  Anything extra is an added benefit that I can distribute out once that money is in my hands.

Giving

Our next section is giving.  I am a Christian, and I believe in tithing.  For me, tithing is done before paying anything else as I am a firm believer in God being able to make the rest stretch as long as I give Him my first fruits.  I actually already have the formula set up in that field based on our total income.  Right now, it is documented as 10% Tithe, but I believe that one day we will be able to do more.  This section is also where I include our Offerings amount and extra spaces for monetary Donations that we make during the month to charities or those in need.

My YTD Giving Tracker helps me track our giving towards our specific goals.  Under Target, I list out our goal (for example, 10% of our annual income would be our 10% Tithe target), and each month, I would update the Actual amount.  I have a formula set up for Percent Given.  This allows me to make sure we are on track each month.  If I get to, let’s say, July, and for some reason, we are under 50% of our goal, it is time to reevaluate or confirm that the rest of the year has us hitting our goal.

Saving

I also believe in paying yourself first before you pay anybody else.  I’ve seen (and done) too often, people who wait until everything is paid before they put any money in savings and then they are left with nothing.  This doesn’t work for us because we have goals that we are trying to hit.  In the past, we have followed Dave Ramsey, and he says that you should start with saving an Emergency Fund of $1,000 before you start paying off debt.  That is more of a short term goal that we may already have accomplished.  But if we ever have to use the fund, we need to focus on building it again.  And that is why it keeps a permanent spot on our budget.  We then have a place for Retirement.  The older we get, the more critical this section is.  As a No Car Note family, we need to keep that going for as long as possible.  That means we need to save for our next set of cars, which happens in the New Car Fund.  Our next one is a calculation.  Have you ever heard the statistic that, if you pay one additional payment a year to the principal on a 30-year mortgage, it will remove seven years from your mortgage?  That’s seven years of interest I do not have to pay!  So we take that one extra payment and divide it by 12 to know how much extra we have to put aside each month in our House Fund.  We would also use this when it comes time to save for a new house.  For additional money that we want to save for no specific purpose, we have a Savings Goal section.  This is also a formula that can calculate 5%, 10%, or 25% of your total income.  If you are in school and paying for it out of pocket (like I was), there is a Tuition section.  Many financial gurus will tell you about the benefit of having a certain amount of your monthly expenses set aside in case of job loss.  Depending on who you follow, that amount could be anywhere from 3-12 months.  I prefer to save in 3-month increments for our goal.  So we currently have it set as 3-6 Months Expenses.  Finally, we have our Vacation Fund to save for those vacation dreams we have.

I threw in some sample numbers so you could see what the YTD Savings Tracker looks like in action with the goals listed.  Target is where we keep our goal numbers for each section.  Each month, as deposits are made into these funds, the Actual amount gets updated.  Then the formula I have under Percent Saved will calculate and let us know how on track with our goals we are.  Admittedly, some of these goals have to take a back burner depending on whats going on in our life.  Some gurus will tell you only to have an emergency fund while paying debt.  Other’s will show you how to save in all these areas AND pay off debt, albeit slowly.

Debt

Although this tends to be a substantial section, the numbers are pretty straightforward.  The Debt section is where I list our budgeted and actual payments for our Mortgage, Credit Cards, Car Notes, Student Loans, and any Other Debt you have.  (I’ve added Student Loans up here because I know that is a large amount of the debt those in America carry.  We were lucky to pay mine off before we bought our house and cash flow, my classes, when I take them).  The Budgeted section here will show the minimum payment amount only.  Once we make the payment (which hopefully is always more than the minimum), we update the Actual section.

The Debt Snowball Tracker is for me one of my favorite parts on this spreadsheet.  But it can also be the most shocking if you haven’t taken stock of your financial situation before.  This is another section where I have added sample numbers for you to see.  The Debt Snowball is where we track the overall totals of our debt.  I include the Due Date since those are typically fixed.  Then I add in the Original amount for the debt.  Each month, I update the Balance.  And the formula calculates the Percent Paid.  I document the Interest Rate to keep an eye on those.  And I update the Per Statement Date to show where I got the balance from.  Plugging in all of those numbers will then have the formula calculate the Total Current Debt and the Debt Starting Point.  Then I have a section for the Total Debt Paid Off, which gives me the dollar amount that we have already paid off and the percentage.

The Bill Tracker is the biggest section on the right side of the spreadsheet, but I am going to break it up.  This section here is where I track the payment information for the debt that we have.  I document the exact Due Date, the exact Amount, the Method of payment (mail check, scheduled, autopay), which Paycheck it will come out of,  and if it’s Confirmed Paid/Payment Cleared.  Then I also have a Notes section here.  While the Debt Snowball Tracker shows the total amount of debt we have, the Debt section of our Budget shows the minimum payment due, and what we plan to pay, the Debt section of our Bill Tracker focuses on the monthly payments that we actually make.

Next Time

Next week, I will go into details about our other bills, subscriptions, blow money, and savings categories for some of those areas.  Let me know below if you have a budget spreadsheet or what you think of ours!

Categories
Down The TBR Hole

Down the TBR Hole #201 – 220

Welcome to Down the TBR Hole #201-220!  What is Down the TBR Hole?  It is where I grab 20 books from my incredibly long TBR list on Goodreads and decide if I am keeping or removing the books.  Need to catch up?  Click here to go to the previous post.  As a reminder, here are the rules:

This week has been a recoup and recover week from a stressful week with a family emergency that happened. I usually would turn to books, but I am not sure I read anything outside of some poems this week.  But I also didn’t add many books to the list, so I am starting this week with 4,663 books. Let’s get started.

 

1. The Art of War by Sun Tzu

I’ve heard so many great things about this book, and although it is about the military strategy, it is supposed to be great to use in business.  It’s one of those books that is probably considered a classic.  But I decided last year that just because a book is a classic doesn’t mean that I have to read it.  So while I am sure this is a great book, it isn’t something that I want to read at this time. I am removing it from my list.

 

 

 

2. The Art of War for Women: Sun Tzu’s Ancient Strategies and Wisdom for Winning Work by Chin-Ning Chu

The author uses Sun Tzu’s strategies and gears it towards women.  But like the book above, it just isn’t something I want to read in this season.  I am removing it from my list.

 

 

 

3. Simply Clean: The Proven Method for Keeping Your Home Organized, Clean, and Beautiful in Just 10 Minutes A Day by Becky Rapinchuk

When I quit my job, I had this dream of being the best damn housewife out there. So I wanted to learn all these additional things to make my house the best home for my husband and myself.  So I wanted to read all the books to do just that.  As much as I love cleaning and organizing, I feel like I can always learn a better way.  With that being said, I am keeping this one.

 

 

4. The Organically Clean Home: 150 Everyday Organic Cleaning Products You Can Make Yourself – The Natural, Chemical-Free Way by Becky Rapinchuk

Apart of me wanting to do better with cleaning and organizing was also to do so naturally.  I wanted to replace all of the things that weren’t good for us and our home.  So finding a book that can help me make my own cleaning products, was right up my alley.  So I am keeping this one.

 

 

 

 

5. The Power That Changes the World: Creating Eternal Impact in the Here and Now by Bill Johnson

I think this message has been given and packaged in many books, and there isn’t anything calling out to me about this book.  Because of that, I am going to remove it.

 

 

 

 

6. Big girls DO Cry: Letting God Heal Your Hurts From The Inside Out by Lisa K. Spivey

I think every Christian should know how to handle any type of loss before it happens spiritually.  I’ve seen so many people lose their faith after a tragic event, and it is heartbreaking.  Since this book talks about the way to turn to God during those times, it is a book I want to keep on my list.

 

 

 

 

7. God is With You Everyday by Max Lucado

Another devotional.  And as much as I love Max Lucado, I need to be honest with myself about if I’m going to read all of these devotionals.  And I am not.  So I am going to remove this one.

 

 

 

 

 

8. One Thousand Gifts: A Dare to Live Fully Right Where You Are by Ann Voskamp

Another book that I have heard great things about.  And being more appreciative of the everyday things and moments is something that I need to do.  I complain a lot and am hoping that in 2020 I can change that.  I am keeping this one.

 

 

 

 

9. Closer Than Your Skin: Unwrapping the Mystery of Intimacy with God by Susan D. Hill

Intimacy is something that I struggle with in my relationship with God.  I can honestly say that because He isn’t someone I can see or tangibly feel all the time, it’s easy for me to not really “feel” like He is here.  I know that isn’t the correct way, but it’s just my truth.  I am keeping this one to help with that, hopefully.

 

 

 

10. Steal Like An Artist: 10 Things Nobody Told You About Being Creative by Austin Kleon

Someone promoting being yourself and using our own creativity instead of being like everyone else?  Yup, I’m for it.  This seems like it will be a quick, motivational book.  I am keeping it.

 

 

 

 

11. Be You & Live Civil: Tools for Unlocking Your Potential & Living Your Purpose by Karen Civil

Karen Civil is one of those badass women who I sit back and watch and be amazed at all that she is and has accomplished.  So I will be happy to read all that she produces.  I am keeping this book.

 

 

 

 

 

12. But Are You Making Any Money?: Stop Being Busy and Start Creating Cash by Marley Majcher

I think this would be an excellent book for a different season.  I realized that I have shifted into one of those people that can sometimes get caught up in the creating and planning and struggle at times with the actual doing.  I am removing this one.

 

 

 

 

13. Girl Code: Unlocking the Secrets to Success, Sanity, and Happiness for the Female Entrepreneur by Cara Alwill Leyba

Another book I’ve heard a lot about specifically in the female entrepreneurship world.  It’s been on almost every recommended book list I’ve seen for business women.  I do want to read it.  I am keeping this one.

 

 

 

 

 

14. The One Thing: The Surprisingly Simple Truth Behind Extraordinary Results by Gary Keller

Success, productivity, and purpose.  Three things that I am interested in.  I am keeping this one.

 

 

 

 

15. Money, Possessions and Eternity by Randy Alcorn

Money is a hot topic in Christianity.  We think we should be blessed enough to have money but turn our nose up when those in ministry have money or ask for it.  I have my own opinion based on what I have read in the Bible, but I am always interested in hearing others’ views.  So I am keeping this one.

 

 

 

 

16. The Millionaire Next Door: The Surprising Secrets of America’s Wealthy by Thomas J. Stanley and William D. Danco

This is a book that has been on my personal list for a while now, even though it is a top-rated book.  I am keeping this one.

 

 

 

 

 

17. The Rules of Wealth: A Personal Code for Prosperity by Richard Templar

This doesn’t seem all that interesting, so I am removing it.

 

 

 

 

 

 

18. The One-Page Financial Plan: A Simple Way to Be Smart About Your Money by Carl Richards

My love for all things budgeting and finances made me interested in this book.  I am keeping it.

 

 

 

 

19. Nice Girls Don’t Get Rich: 75 Avoidable Mistakes Women Make with Money by Lois Frankel

What money mistakes am I making that is specific to being a woman?  Is there such a thing?  Those are questions that led me to add this book to the list.  I am keeping it there.

 

 

 

 

 

20. Rich Bitch: A Simple 12-Step Plan for Getting Your Financial Life Together…Finally by Nicole Lapin

It seems like Nicole Lapin’s approach to getting rich is different from others.  Because I love learning more about money and different ways to keep it, I am keeping this one on the list.

 

 

 

Final Count: Removing 6; Keeping 14

TBR Down to 4,657

This week’s list had quite a few books about money and finances, which go in line with January’s Year of Healthy theme.  Have you read any of these books? Did I make a mistake with removing or keeping one?