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Journey to Entrepreneurship

Journey to Entrepreneurship: Update

I planned on doing an update to this series a month or two ago.  And while I had it written, I didn’t get around to publishing it.  But it is July, and we currently have half a year left, and I realized that a lot of my goals fell away thanks to some things going on in my life.  But I want to share with you why that isn’t necessarily a bad thing.

What’s Been Going On?

COVID…Civil Unrest…Medical Issues…Schedule Changes.  What isn’t going on at the moment?  While I won’t spend a ton of time talking about the current pandemic or how a majority of the country somehow is just figuring out that racism still exists, I will say it has impacted our household a ton.  I have an autoimmune disorder and have no clue if my body could handle the virus, so I am 100% onboard with staying in my house 24/7.  My husband is military and is considered essential, so he has no choice but to go to work.  He has also had a vast schedule change that impacts how we manage our household.  And we are Black, so racism is an everyday thing for us.  We live in the south and in a fairly whitewashed area where, unfortunately, we always have to be aware of those around us.  And whether it is the stress of all of that or completely random, I have been dealing with some medical issues that have wreaked havoc on my routines, sleep, and appetite.  To say I have been struggling is an understatement.

BUT…I recognized all of this and knew that meant that I had to make adjustments.  My health is obviously a priority to me, so that means I needed to focus on fixing those issues first.  My marriage is a priority, so with my husband’s schedule change, we had to work really hard to ensure we stayed on the same page and connected.  That meant that some things became less of a priority to me.  You may have noticed a lot of social media breaks from me.  My page tends to focus on my faith and my life as a housewife and how I manage all the things.  I give you a glimpse into how I plan, cleaning and cooking, my bible study and sermon notes, budgeting, and creating a business.  All I have had time for has been my Bible study, so I continue to post that.  There are some things that because I have built automated routines in place, I didn’t have to worry about like our budgeting.  Others, like cooking and the business, just haven’t been happening because those are things that I have the ability to put down for the moment.

Business Update

So while some of my goals for the business had to be pushed off, I was able to do some things that either took a quick moment or set me up for future projects.  For example, I established our LLC.  Before my focus shifted, I worked with a Career Manager, Business Coach, and Business Consultant who were very helpful in helping me streamline my thoughts.  I wrote a bit about them and will be sharing those resources on the blog.  I decided to continue my education by getting a certificate that I feel will further help me in my journey to become an entrepreneur.  I also decided to start the process of gaining an accreditation for an area that I have been interested in since I was a teenager.  Both start this year, and I will be sharing what I can from them.

What’s Next?

When I started this journey, I set a plan for myself.  2020 was going to be all about learning.  Taking courses, learn how to create and do new things, and get better at things I have current experience with.  2021 was going to be the year that I focused on launching and building our business(es).  And 2022 and beyond would be all about growing our business(es) and legacy.  With half the year left, I am still sticking to that plan.  The certificate and accreditation fit nicely into those plans as I will be taking classes and courses this year.  Next year, I will continue to gain experience using our actual business.  I’ve set a goal to do at least one thing a month for the rest of the year to move the business forward.  I’m hoping I will do more, but I wanted to make sure I started with an attainable goal.  The plan is also to write at least one JTE update a month.  I promised to bring you along on the journey, and I want to make sure I continue to do that.

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Rhenáe's Recap

Return of Rhenáe’s Recap: 4/5/20 – 4/12/20

Y’all, it’s been a while since I’ve done a Rhenáe’s Recap, but when I was trying to decide the best way to share the resources that I learn from every week with you, I figured this was it.  It will still be a recap of posts from the blog for the week, including any reviews that I’ve done.  And I was previously also including resources that I am taking in like books and shows (very heavy on the books).  Since I am still taking in both plus doing courses and on the journey to entrepreneurship, I want to document and share what I am taking in each week.  Plus, I am seeing that I am using YouTube and Pinterest more and more for my research (including for my Year of Healthy focuses).  I have so much commentary on these things that I would love to talk with yall about!  So…this is going to be a recap of what I have ingested this past week during my digital detox.

Posts

I kicked off last week, letting you know that I needed a break.  I was getting so many notifications and having so many conversations about this darn virus, and for my mental health, I needed to cut it all off.  Check out the Rhenáe’s Randoms post that talks all about it.  It also has my notes from that Sunday’s sermon from my church.

To further prove my point that I needed to step away, I looked at my Screen Time stats on my phone, and for 3/29-4/5, here is what my top 4 notifications look like: Gmail – 708, Instagram – 304, GroupMe – 206, Messages – 166.

For the week of my break 4/6-4/11: Gmail – 600, GroupMe – 270, Instagram – 218, News App – 98.

Today is the last day of my break, and I will NOT be catching up on those notifications.  And I will be turning some of them off, as well as going back to using my downtime throughout the day.

I wrote Part 2 of my Hope Writers recap last week.  I am still looking at ways to bring the suggestions given into my writing here on the blog and into future endeavors.  Make sure you read Part 1 also.

 

The book of 2nd Thessalonians was last week’s feature in the All 66 Books series.  Check that post out to see all of the different resources that I found that you can use after you read the quick book from Paul in the New Testament.  Both of the letters to the Thessalonians have been blessing me for the past couple of weeks.  If you haven’t taken the time to read them, I highly suggest it.  It will take you less than 20 minutes to get through both.

 

Books

This week I decided to reorganize my bookshelves.  I actually was trying to put up different piles that I had laying around.  I got it in my head that for my detox, I would try and finish up all the books that I’ve started.  Well, that didn’t work because when I pulled all of the physical books that I have begun at one point in time, I realized it was 28.  I am not even going to try this task with my ebooks because I took a look, and between Kindle and Apple Books, I have almost 5,000 books.  And since I tend to move on from those books quickly based on my mood (I don’t feel like reading a 300+ page book today, I hate the tone of the first page, I’m tired of the main character getting cheated on), I know I have started probably over half of those.  I decided that I am going to try and tackle the 28 books this year, so they are currently sitting on my desk with my current one on my nightstand.

If you have read my marriage post, you will know that Kingdom Marriage by Tony Evans is my current read. I was reading this kind of slow (a chapter a day), but then I honestly haven’t picked it up in a bit.  We are still
doing the accompanying devotional, which has been doing wonders for our communication and prayer life. I am going back to this book and making it a goal to finish before the end of the week.  I only have six chapters left so I can do this.

YouTube

This week on YouTube was a bit of research on my Year of Healthy April post, which comes out tomorrow.  So I will talk about those videos I liked later.  But some videos randomly caught my attention that I want to share with you.

I love Stove Top Kisses and her videos.  She is just so funny, southern to the core, and does some real soulful cooking.  If you know me, you know that Hennessey is my jam, so I cannot wait to try and make this baby!

Okay, so the title of this one pulled me in because I was like what?!?!?! $3,700! Well, she lives in a tiny town in NY where her closest big box store is about 1 1/2 hours away.  So to prep for winter, she tends to do one big grocery haul for the year.  She hit up Walmart, Sam’s Club, Costco, Trader Joe’s, BJ’s, and another grocery store I wasn’t familiar with.  But she got some fantastic deals on meat that she was able to stock up on.  And here is the thing…she has a reasonable household budget!  $40 a week per person.  She has six people in her family.  She then takes the yearly amount ($12,480), and that starts her budget for these trips.  So when you look at that amount compared to the $3,700 she spent, it’s not that bad.  She even mentioned she had some money leftover from last year’s budget and was able to carry it over to this year’s budget!  I am definitely taking notes while I work on building my kitchen staples.

Other Resources

While this resource was from the week before, I think it is still a great one to share.  Essence Studios hosted a Virtual Summit called Essence Wellness House with over a dozen sessions from Faith Hunter, Dr. Patrice A. Harris, Sarah Jakes Roberts, Dr. Sherry Blake, Rosalynn Daniels, Gina Neely, Iyanla Vanzant, Brukwine, Dr. Lauren Powell, Rev. Michael B. Beckwith, Tiffany “The Budgetnista” Aliche, LeVar Burton, Charlamagne The God, Dr. Joy Harden Bradford, and ShaNay Norvell.  I watched most of the sessions, and they are definitely filled with nuggets to help us during this COVID-19 season.

Here are some other summits from Dr. Shannon Irvine that I watched this week that were available (and should still be available).

RISE Together: Top Industry Leaders Speak Out – features panelists: Pat Flynn, Jennifer Allwood, Michelle Meyers, Ray Edwards, Rachel McMichael, Sara Anna Powers, Brian Dixon, Erin Sanderson, and Christina Jandali

Rise Together: Pivot, Uplevel and Rise Become Unstoppable even in Uncertainty – features panelists: Stu McLaren, James Wedmore, Scott Volker, Colin Boyd, Tiffany Lee Bymaster, Jennifer Berson, Michael Maidens, Rachel Perry, Dorie Howell, Natalie Jill, and Mel Abraham

Rise Together Part 3: Pivot, Uplevel and Rise Become Unstoppable even in Uncertainty features panelists: Allison Maslan, Jen Casey, Tyler McCall, Rachel Luna, Amy Yamada, Christie Miller, Jenna Soard, Gladys Diaz & Michelle Roza, Nicole Culver, and Tara Walsh

I plan on rewatching these as they were lives that I had playing in the background while doing other work.  I want to be able to take notes as well as look into some of the panelists to learn what I can from them.  This rabbit hole is usually how I find out about other entrepreneurs and their resources.

I’ll be honest and say that I still feel a bit all over the place when it comes to what I am taking in for my entrepreneurship journey.  I need to come up with a better plan and system.  That will be my overall goal for this week: for me to work on some type of resource action plan.  I did have a need early last week to better document somethings daily.  I felt like my planner wasn’t giving me all that I needed, so I worked on creating a planner page that I can just tip into my planner (or most likely my notebook) to help me track these items.  I want to try it out for another week or two to see if I need to make any tweaks.

I hope that you can get something out of all that I included in the recap this week.  I look forward to doing these recaps each weekend.  Leave me a comment down below and let me know what your favorite resource was.

 

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Hope Writer’s Recap Part 2

Two weeks ago, I had the pleasure of signing up for 15 Tuesday Teaching’s from Hope*Writers, and last week, I shared the first half of the teachers.  I included what stuck out to me the most and what I plan on using to create action steps and execute here on the blog and in future endeavors.  Here is the rest of the teachers and what I was able to learn from them.

Erin Loechner was another author that I was not familiar with before I started to watch these teachings.  Emily noted that her blog was a great example of voice.  What I think most will find fascinating about Erin is her current schedule.  She gets up every morning at 2 am (she goes to bed at 6 pm) and writes.  This is what works best for her and her husband during this season with small children.  What I love about this is, it isn’t traditional.  She isn’t trying to force her family to fit into “normal,” and they created their standard.  Also, only 2-3% of what she writes actually gets published (on her blog or in her book).

Regular advice that you receive is to write what you know.  But once I started writing what I wanted to know, I started to uncover my voice.

Writing vs. publishing requires a different person.  Writing is filling, theraputic, quiet.  Publishing is emptying and promotional.

Another newbie to me, Jennifer Allwood, seems to be owning her Facebook platform.  She helped me understand how
important it is to understand who your ideal client is.  She advocates for having what she calls a business therapist.  And she is very vocal about realizing that you can’t and shouldn’t do it all and to not be afraid to hire help.  And that is in your business and your home. I enjoyed how she broke down her justification for hiring a housekeeper.  She paid $150 for 6 hours and was able to work on something that earned her $100-200 an hour.  For her, paying the $150 for 6 hours was worth it when she made $600-$1200 in that same 6 hours.

Just by being fully me all the time, I never have to worry about pretense.

We have a responsibility to a calling and fear does not release us from that calling.

Deidra Riggs was someone else that I was not familiar with before this week, but what I enjoyed the most was her openness about her struggles with her last book.  She speaks about the business side and, unfortunately, the politics behind selling a book.  A well-known author endorsed her book, and there were plans to put that endorsement on the front cover.  Until that well-known author came out that she was divorcing her husband and marrying a woman.  Her publishers, recognizing that vendors wouldn’t carry the book with the endorsement, removed it.  That didn’t sit well with Deidra and has impacted sales and promotion.

Her agent advised her that a book multiples the ministry of your message.

Was this the moment for it? Maybe not.  Maybe it’s moment has yet to come. (In regards to her second book and her disappointments with it)

Believe in your heart who you are.  And then be who you say you are.

My favorite quote from all 15 teachings: But I’m also an introvert so I don’t try very hard.

I know I keep repeating this (and probably will one more time), but I wasn’t aware of who Crystal Paine was before the day I watched her teaching.  But she gave some really good insight on blogging since that is her primary platform.   I am looking forward to incorporating some of her points into the blog here.

 

You want to solve a problem, meet a need or provide hope.  But try to do all three.

Focus on and finish one thing at a time.  Test it out for about three months.

People want to connect with a person not a platform.

Study others who are doing it well.

Now, Sally Clarkson, I am familiar with.  Not only is she the author of dozens of books, but she is the mother of Sarah Clarkson, who is also a writer.  She spoke a lot about the changes in her message and publishing over the years.  She focuses on adapting to her audience and not being afraid to bring in a new audience and ways to connect with them (for example, Millenials).

 

Really good writing comes out of our own heart conviction.

If people took their eyes off of other people, they would have more authentic voices.

You can’t face your reader and critic at the same time.  To speak to one is to turn your back on the other one.

Don’t dispise the days of small things. (an adaption of Zachariah 4:10)

This author, S.D. Smith, I couldn’t connect with at all.  It appears he may be the author of children or teen fiction.  And while I may not be his target audience, I was hoping that I could get something out of his teaching.  But unfortunately, I didn’t get anything from it but maybe one sentence.  He seemed to be all over the place with his message and talked a lot about who he was and specifics about his books.

When you look for light, darkness will be there.  You are going to have to fight.

Another blogger turned author who I was introduced to, Kendra Adachi spoke a lot about the mistakes that she made along the way.  She also touched on somethings that she did right that was pure blessings.  She gave pointers like always including an email sign up even when your website is still “coming soon.” I also loved the landing page for her website, where it lists all the different ways to connect with what she offers without you having to hunt for it.

Don’t be afraid to pivot.

Don’t let your inability to explain where you’ve been suck or what you are doing, keep you from moving forward.

The last and final teacher is probably the best known.  Beth Moore is the author of so many books and Bible studies, including a few that sit on my bookshelves.  The best part of this whole interview was the fact that Beth Moore didn’t know she was on camera until maybe the last 5 minutes of a hour-long teaching.  She assumed that only Emily could see her.  I don’t recall ever hearing Beth Moore teach before, but she is so comical and felt so down to earth.  She is a daily journaler (which she calls her private relationship with Christ), who has her own journals coiled with the paper she likes at her local supply store.  She is also an avid tweeter and broke down when she knows something is a tweet, blog post, teaching, or a book/bible study.

I belong to Jesus.  Everything else, I don’t need to understand.

The best writing is understanding we are traveling.  Write from where we are now, as we are becoming.

If it is a short term passion, it is probably a tweet (if words only) or a facebook post.  If it goes away, that is it.  But if it keeps buring, write a blog.  If it stays, speak on it.  If still burining, it will be a book or Bible study.

Ask God to manipulate my desires.  Take my heart and take over my passions.

It all gets said to God but not always written or spoken.

I don’t know a lot but I want to share with someone else what I do know and what I have learned in case it is a help to them.

The kitchen is hot.  If you can’t take the heat, this ain’t the kitchen you want.

You gon’ on ahead.  I’m not going there with you.  But I’ll be here when you get back.

When dealing with extreme pain: when you are still hemoraging is a great time for journaling.  It is not the time for publishing.

The midpoint of our pain is a beautiful place to write.

If you can’t tell, I thoroughly enjoyed the 15 teachings that Hope*Writers gave away for free during this time of social distancing while dealing with the coronavirus.  I can’t wait to start implementing what I learned!  I thought long and hard about possibly joining their membership, but while I enjoyed the teachings and saw the value, I’m not sure if I am that serious enough of a writer at the moment to justify the cost.  I would love it if they had an option to get access to the 80+ teachings they currently have in their library.  Leave me a comment down below on what your favorite quote was from the teachings I shared today or let me know if you are a member of Hope*Writers.

*All images from Hope*Writer’s website and emails.

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The Journey to Entrepreneurship

I’m letting you in on a secret that I haven’t shared with many people.

If you have checked out some of my previous posts, you may know that after leaving my career in corporate America, I decided to focus on home more and start a business.  I took a break for the holidays and my birthday and I never went back to it.

I, Tanisha Rhenáe, a driven, organized planner just up and quit her professional organizing business because something was missing.

One of the reasons I took my Sabbatical was to come to terms with feeling like a failure.  Even though it was my choice, it was still super embarrassing.

 

While out of town, I realized that I needed to do something.  I thought one of the places where I lost my way was leaving my job.  So I started to apply for different positions. Lots and lots of jobs.  And crickets.  No phone calls. No interviews.  Nothing. I’m not saying this to brag, but I have never had this problem before.  I’ve always been able to get at least an interview for jobs that I wanted.  I’ve been headhunted multiple times. I’ve been offered positions just off of my work ethic alone.  So to go months and months without hearing anything, my confidence was crushed.  Was it because I wasn’t traditionally employed for a while? Was this because I was a military spouse? (Besides the fact that we have been stationed in the same place his whole career #Blessed, I was also with my last company for six years.  #Loyalty) What was I doing wrong?

I prayed.

I cried.

Prayed some more.

Cried some more.

I worked with people on my resume.  I gave up on my restrictions and applied for all types of positions and industries.  I heard nothing.  I asked God what I was doing wrong?  What did He want me to do? A whole year later, I wrote this post about affirmations and manifestation.  So I started to put it into practice.  I prayed for God’s will.  I repeated that the right job, for me, would come to me.  I talked positively about the job hunt.  I spoke about myself using titles that I was applying to.  I prayed over each application.  I shared with friends so they could pray.  And as much as I try and stay away from the “famous” scriptures, it is still scripture, so when God dropped Romans 8:28 in my heart, I had to listen.

We know that all things work together for the good of those who love God, who are called according to his purpose. (CSB)

And then, I had a couple of friends deliver the same message whenever I would get discouraged.  So I asked God to open the doors that were meant for me and close the doors that weren’t.  To check my heart to make sure I didn’t end up with an Ishmael instead of an Issac because I was forcing something that wasn’t in His will.

Two things happened.

I received an email about an entrepreneur certificate I applied for a year before that I completely forgot about, saying registration was open.  I signed up to start taking classes in the second half of this year.

Next, I heard back from what looked like my dream job.  Y’all…this job was .04 miles from my front door.  I was hype! I made it all the way through, and my final step was canceled.  My would-be boss interviewed someone he loved and didn’t see the need to keep going.  I was heartbroken!

Then God and I had another pow-wow.  What the heck was I supposed to do?

Do I go back to work?

Do I stick with being a housewife?

Do I go back to being an entrepreneur?

Do I go to school?

While confused, I kept speaking positively.  I kept praying.  I shared my fears with Chris, and he was able to pray and give me comfort as well.  He kept reminding me that the right opportunity would head my way.  So I kept applying for jobs.  We agreed that if I didn’t find anything by the time the certificate classes start, I would put the job hunt on hold until next year.  That gave me about four months to keep looking.

While applying for yet another job, I had to register first.  But by the time I finished that process, something at the house distracted me, and I never got around to applying.  I received an email from a Career Manager from that site to connect.  We talked for a bit, and I knew she must have thought I was crazy because I was so tired of the process and just all over the place.  I was honest and told her I had no clue what I wanted to do and gave her some background information. She told me to sit down and write out what I wanted my next 30 days, 60 days, 90 days, and one year to look like.  She would put some feelers out there about schools and jobs, and we would come back together the following week.

To learn more about her and the company, I went back to the site and realized that this was a local career network for military spouses! In addition to the help of the career manager, they also had different trainings available.

This conversation, looking at this site, and her assignment triggered the flood gates to open.

I remembered all the courses I signed up for but didn’t have the time to take because I was so focused on finding any job.  And with the Coronavirus, I wasn’t able to leave my house anymore, so I had even more time.  Plus, so many companies started to offer their resources for free to help deal with social distancing.  And the type of jobs I was looking for stopped hiring as they dealt with the pandemic and transitioning to remote work.

This situation made me realize how many people are stuck in their spot without any other options.

How many people just were not prepared for a significant change in their day to day.

What could have been done differently?

How could I help?

Then it hit me…I wanted to be an entrepreneur so I could help people.  I’m passionate about learning and sharing resources, and it seems people need that now more than ever!

I met with the Career Manager again, and before she could say a word, I told her that I wanted to be an entrepreneur, but I needed help!  She laughed. I told you she probably thought I was crazy because I went from looking for jobs for the past year and possibly going back to school in one week to owning my own business the next.  But the reason she laughed was that she just so happened to talk to a local business consultant earlier and I popped into her mind to connect us!

Y’all…Do you see how God works?

God also connected me with a friend that is a business coach that understood my struggle with being multi-passionate and wanting to be an entrepreneur.

My blog has always been about me documenting my journey of growth.

So as I figure out what I want to do and how to do, I want to bring you along. Because I know that I am not the only one who is in this situation, and I absolutely love sharing what I learn.

I’ll talk about the courses I take, what I do to build my confidence and get over the fear that I feel and how I still plan to prioritize my relationship with God, my husband, and my home.

I’m scared, excited, and nervous all at the same time.  But this blog post was the first step, so cheers to accomplishing that!

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Hope Writer’s Recap Part 1

This past week, Hope*Writer’s was one of the companies that offered some of their resources for free while we have been practicing social distancing.  They gave everyone that signed up access to 15 of their Tuesday Teaching’s, which they said were handpicked by their community as the best of the best.

I’ve heard of Hope*Writer’s from their founder Emily P. Freeman, author of The Next Right Thing.  It is a membership service described as “a community of working writers dedicated to the success and creativity of each member.”  I’ve always been interested in it but don’t consider myself a serious enough writer to pay the $47 a month to join.

I learned quite a bit from the teachers this week and wanted to share with you some of my notes.  I plan on creating some action steps and executing them here on the blog and in future endeavors.

Jo Saxton

I had never heard of Jo Saxton, but immediately after watching her teaching, I went right to her social media to follow her.  Her leadership skills were evident in her speaking, and she was so down to earth.  Here are a few of my favorite things from what she said.

Your passions arrive before the work does.

There is a colloboration even in the book you wrote yourself.

If you want to level up your leadership, you need to build your village (relational and professional).

You need two sets of people.  People who give you roots that support and encourage and are a relational investment that gives you the courage to write.  And people who give you wings who actually help you get things done and help you build the career.

When I was starting out, I had opportunities because other leaders got out of the way.  Those smaller amounts were blessings in my beginnings.

Jeff Goins

Jeff Goins was another author I had not had the pleasure of knowing beforehand.  What was interesting about his interview was that he is venturing into the ghostwriting arena, and he named some pretty big names who are ghostwriters as well, like Ryan Holiday.  Some of my favorite advice from him was less about being a writer and more on how to be a mentee.

I end things so I can begin the next thing.

The best deadlines are honest deadlines.

Assume the future you is lazier than the current you and you will never be disappointed.

A question from Seth Godin that he uses, “Why can’t you just do it until it stops being fun?”

If you want to get into anything, you have got to fall in love with the word “yes”.  Yes, I can do that and here’s how.  And then find a way to make it work.

Any time you are meeting with someone who you preceive their time is more valuable than yours: 1. always take notes and 2. send an email immediately saying here is what I got out of the meeting.  Then follow up once you have done it.

The only thing I know how to do reasonably well is not quit.

I’m free to succeed because I don’t need the success.

You cannot love something you are trying to control because control is about fear and fear and love does not go together.

Katherine Reay

Now Katherine Reay is someone I was familiar with.  I read her book, The Printed Letter Bookshop.  While I have no plans to be a traditional author in the sense of writing a book, I know if I ever do, it will most likely not be fiction, which is her genre.  And while I didn’t get as much from her teaching as some of the others, it was interesting to see how she structures her week to get her writing done.

You cannot create and edit at the same time.

Get the words out as fast as you can on the paper without your editorial mind.  Then go in and edit it.

Annie F. Downs

Annie F. Downs is one of the more prominent names (at least to me) that was one of the speakers.  Her book, 100 Days to Brave, has been all over the place.  Including my bookshelf even though I haven’t read it yet.  She gave a lot of details on creative ways to get your books in people’s hands and how to start speaking.  And while again, I don’t plan on being a book author or a speaker, it was great to learn the business behind her brand.

The actual thing you want to do forever is being you.

You need to have a thesis statement.

Every January make a yes or no list.

The boundary lines have fallen for me in pleasant places. (Psalm 16:6 CSB)

Not all callings are created equallly; not all personalities are the same. – Emily

Kelly Minter

Before this week, I knew that Kelly Minter was a Bible teacher, but I can’t remember where for the life of me I heard of her from.  I am just going to assume social media right now because it doesn’t appear she was a speaker at the Enjoy God’s Word Bible Conference.  The funny thing is, when I look at all the speakers and who I think I could closely relate to work-wise, it is Kelly.  I love Bible reading and studying and could see myself one day doing a Bible Study.  I may have been so wrapped up in what she was saying I didn’t take many notes.  But she gave some pointers that I will share.

To get your insight, follow your questions and start digging.  Look at the cross references before commentaries.

Look around at people who are already doing it well.

Be a student of Bible studies.

Use a pilot group to review your studies.

Michele Cushatt

Michele Cushatt is another author that I hadn’t heard of before her session.  She wrote what appears to be a deeply personal memoir and touched on how to write about hard topics and when to share.  This was especially important to me because my blog is personal, yet it is crucial to know what not to share with the world.

People don’t connect with perfection, they connect with pain

It’s always the right time to write; it’s not always the right time to share.

When trying to determine how much to share, ask yourself the following: What’s my objective? Who is my audience? How much time do I have? What parts of my story is necessary to my objective’s? Do I have permission to tell this?

Ashlyn Carter

YouTube introduced me to Ashlyn Carter a while ago but more so because of her planning and productivity videos.  I knew she was a writer, but that isn’t the content I paid attention to.  Man, oh man, did I waste my time.  I learned the most information from Ashlyn’s session. So much so that it’s been hard to break it down to a couple of lines like the others.  Ashlyn is a copywriter, and I realized that gave her a unique insight into the blogging world, social media captions, and newsletters.  All things I would love to learn about and get better at.  There was just so much information that I am hoping to put into practice right away.  And I have immediately subscribed to her YouTube channel and can’t wait to binge-watch!

Use formula’s: Problem, Agitation, Solution

The word “YOU” can be so powerful.

Listen to what people want and then say it back to them.

Facts don’t care about your feelings.

Alright, I am going to end this post here cause it’s getting long!  Stay tuned for the final post outlining the other speakers and teachers!

*All images from Hope*Writer’s website and emails.

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Down the TBR Hole #201 – 220

Welcome to Down the TBR Hole #201-220!  What is Down the TBR Hole?  It is where I grab 20 books from my incredibly long TBR list on Goodreads and decide if I am keeping or removing the books.  Need to catch up?  Click here to go to the previous post.  As a reminder, here are the rules:

This week has been a recoup and recover week from a stressful week with a family emergency that happened. I usually would turn to books, but I am not sure I read anything outside of some poems this week.  But I also didn’t add many books to the list, so I am starting this week with 4,663 books. Let’s get started.

 

1. The Art of War by Sun Tzu

I’ve heard so many great things about this book, and although it is about the military strategy, it is supposed to be great to use in business.  It’s one of those books that is probably considered a classic.  But I decided last year that just because a book is a classic doesn’t mean that I have to read it.  So while I am sure this is a great book, it isn’t something that I want to read at this time. I am removing it from my list.

 

 

 

2. The Art of War for Women: Sun Tzu’s Ancient Strategies and Wisdom for Winning Work by Chin-Ning Chu

The author uses Sun Tzu’s strategies and gears it towards women.  But like the book above, it just isn’t something I want to read in this season.  I am removing it from my list.

 

 

 

3. Simply Clean: The Proven Method for Keeping Your Home Organized, Clean, and Beautiful in Just 10 Minutes A Day by Becky Rapinchuk

When I quit my job, I had this dream of being the best damn housewife out there. So I wanted to learn all these additional things to make my house the best home for my husband and myself.  So I wanted to read all the books to do just that.  As much as I love cleaning and organizing, I feel like I can always learn a better way.  With that being said, I am keeping this one.

 

 

4. The Organically Clean Home: 150 Everyday Organic Cleaning Products You Can Make Yourself – The Natural, Chemical-Free Way by Becky Rapinchuk

Apart of me wanting to do better with cleaning and organizing was also to do so naturally.  I wanted to replace all of the things that weren’t good for us and our home.  So finding a book that can help me make my own cleaning products, was right up my alley.  So I am keeping this one.

 

 

 

 

5. The Power That Changes the World: Creating Eternal Impact in the Here and Now by Bill Johnson

I think this message has been given and packaged in many books, and there isn’t anything calling out to me about this book.  Because of that, I am going to remove it.

 

 

 

 

6. Big girls DO Cry: Letting God Heal Your Hurts From The Inside Out by Lisa K. Spivey

I think every Christian should know how to handle any type of loss before it happens spiritually.  I’ve seen so many people lose their faith after a tragic event, and it is heartbreaking.  Since this book talks about the way to turn to God during those times, it is a book I want to keep on my list.

 

 

 

 

7. God is With You Everyday by Max Lucado

Another devotional.  And as much as I love Max Lucado, I need to be honest with myself about if I’m going to read all of these devotionals.  And I am not.  So I am going to remove this one.

 

 

 

 

 

8. One Thousand Gifts: A Dare to Live Fully Right Where You Are by Ann Voskamp

Another book that I have heard great things about.  And being more appreciative of the everyday things and moments is something that I need to do.  I complain a lot and am hoping that in 2020 I can change that.  I am keeping this one.

 

 

 

 

9. Closer Than Your Skin: Unwrapping the Mystery of Intimacy with God by Susan D. Hill

Intimacy is something that I struggle with in my relationship with God.  I can honestly say that because He isn’t someone I can see or tangibly feel all the time, it’s easy for me to not really “feel” like He is here.  I know that isn’t the correct way, but it’s just my truth.  I am keeping this one to help with that, hopefully.

 

 

 

10. Steal Like An Artist: 10 Things Nobody Told You About Being Creative by Austin Kleon

Someone promoting being yourself and using our own creativity instead of being like everyone else?  Yup, I’m for it.  This seems like it will be a quick, motivational book.  I am keeping it.

 

 

 

 

11. Be You & Live Civil: Tools for Unlocking Your Potential & Living Your Purpose by Karen Civil

Karen Civil is one of those badass women who I sit back and watch and be amazed at all that she is and has accomplished.  So I will be happy to read all that she produces.  I am keeping this book.

 

 

 

 

 

12. But Are You Making Any Money?: Stop Being Busy and Start Creating Cash by Marley Majcher

I think this would be an excellent book for a different season.  I realized that I have shifted into one of those people that can sometimes get caught up in the creating and planning and struggle at times with the actual doing.  I am removing this one.

 

 

 

 

13. Girl Code: Unlocking the Secrets to Success, Sanity, and Happiness for the Female Entrepreneur by Cara Alwill Leyba

Another book I’ve heard a lot about specifically in the female entrepreneurship world.  It’s been on almost every recommended book list I’ve seen for business women.  I do want to read it.  I am keeping this one.

 

 

 

 

 

14. The One Thing: The Surprisingly Simple Truth Behind Extraordinary Results by Gary Keller

Success, productivity, and purpose.  Three things that I am interested in.  I am keeping this one.

 

 

 

 

15. Money, Possessions and Eternity by Randy Alcorn

Money is a hot topic in Christianity.  We think we should be blessed enough to have money but turn our nose up when those in ministry have money or ask for it.  I have my own opinion based on what I have read in the Bible, but I am always interested in hearing others’ views.  So I am keeping this one.

 

 

 

 

16. The Millionaire Next Door: The Surprising Secrets of America’s Wealthy by Thomas J. Stanley and William D. Danco

This is a book that has been on my personal list for a while now, even though it is a top-rated book.  I am keeping this one.

 

 

 

 

 

17. The Rules of Wealth: A Personal Code for Prosperity by Richard Templar

This doesn’t seem all that interesting, so I am removing it.

 

 

 

 

 

 

18. The One-Page Financial Plan: A Simple Way to Be Smart About Your Money by Carl Richards

My love for all things budgeting and finances made me interested in this book.  I am keeping it.

 

 

 

 

19. Nice Girls Don’t Get Rich: 75 Avoidable Mistakes Women Make with Money by Lois Frankel

What money mistakes am I making that is specific to being a woman?  Is there such a thing?  Those are questions that led me to add this book to the list.  I am keeping it there.

 

 

 

 

 

20. Rich Bitch: A Simple 12-Step Plan for Getting Your Financial Life Together…Finally by Nicole Lapin

It seems like Nicole Lapin’s approach to getting rich is different from others.  Because I love learning more about money and different ways to keep it, I am keeping this one on the list.

 

 

 

Final Count: Removing 6; Keeping 14

TBR Down to 4,657

This week’s list had quite a few books about money and finances, which go in line with January’s Year of Healthy theme.  Have you read any of these books? Did I make a mistake with removing or keeping one?