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Book Review: You And Me Forever By Francis and Lisa Chan

Title: You And Me Forever

Author: Francis and Lisa Chan

Genre: Christian/Marriage

Publisher: Claire Love Publishing

Rating: ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

 

I love Francis Chan books. I even have one of them in my top 5 list of all time. And while this book was a great read, I couldn’t give it five stars because this marriage book wasn’t really about marriage. I mean, the book talked about marriage, and it spoke of parenthood, but overall the book was about your relationship with God and how we should focus on the mission of Jesus to go and make disciples.  So when you think of the book in light of that, it was a solid 4-star read.

My Thoughts

I’ve had this book on my list and in my Apple Books library for a while now.  When I was on a Francis Chan binge a year or two ago, I had plans to read it, but then I was ready for something else.  So when my church had a Wives After God small group, and they were reading this book, I signed up.  We did one chapter a week, and usually, that is too slow for me and why I typically fail at book club-type groups. But because this season was a tad bit busy for me and I wanted to do a better job resting, it was actually what I needed.

 

So the big issue with the book.  The fact that it is supposed to be a marriage book.  If you are expecting step-by-step guidance on how to have a better marriage, communicate better, etc., this isn’t the book for you.  Instead, you have seven short chapters that focus on why marriage (and all the things that come with that, like parenting) aren’t about you and your spouse at all.  Everything is about God, the command to make disciples, and remembering that our home is in heaven.

The book starts by explaining that our home is in heaven and how we should keep eternity instead of our temporary homes and relationships in the forefront of our minds.  And by doing that and following God’s Word, you will have a good life and marriage almost by default.  Not trouble-free, since we aren’t promised that.  Chan’s thoughts are that if we focus on doing all we can to get into heaven, get others into heaven, and storing up our treasures for heaven, our marriages will work themselves out if both spouses have the same mindset.  It leaves little room for fighting and misunderstandings.

 

And that is what the book is about.  It’s about first making sure that you have your salvation worked out.  Cause let’s be serious, if you aren’t going to be in heaven with Jesus, there isn’t a point to talk about anything else.  But once you are saved, the Chan’s then focus on working out your salvation daily with sanctification and fearing God.  What are you praying about?  What order are the priorities in your life? Are you reading God’s Word? Are you taking action on what you are reading?  And when you think about what the Bible says about marriage, it starts to make sense.  First, Jesus tells us we won’t be married in heaven.  Then Paul tells us it’s better to be single so you can focus just on God.  And then most of what we hear about marriage after that is about the marriage of the bride (the Church) and the bridegroom (Jesus).  The Bible talks about that union, what it will look like, and how we are to prepare for it.  But if you are like me, your earthly marriage probably doesn’t have anything to do with heaven.

 

So the first four chapters are really about how to individually and together as a couple get connected to God, live out the mission of Christ, and focus on your time in heaven.  You get some pointers on how to do that, and along with Chapter 5, you focus on what the reward looks like when you do all of that.  Then Chapter 6 talks about parenting.  But again, not in light of marriage.  But basically, what you need to do to show your kids that you are following Christ as a couple instead of just telling them they should follow Christ.  Then a nice conclusion ties it all up, telling you to continue the good fight.

The book itself is interactive.  Each chapter is mainly written from Francis Chan’s voice.  Then there is a section that is specifically from Lisa, followed by a conclusion.  Then there is a do something aspect for each chapter.  This section is filled with ideas on what you can do with your spouse to ensure you are living out what the chapter taught you.  There are also plenty of discussion topics as well.  You have the option to buy the accompanying study guide with the book (I did but honestly didn’t finish it).  And there are also videos to go along with each chapter from the Chan’s.  But here is the best part.  You can read this book for free.  If you go to www.youandmeforever.com, you can download the eBook for free!  It’s a gift to your marriage from the Chan’s.

 

So while this wasn’t my favorite book by Francis Chan, and I was a bit thrown off about it not being a marriage book, it was still a solid read regarding what our focus should be daily.  This book made me realize that I don’t spend time thinking about eternity, let alone making all my decisions in light of it.  In my morning prayer time with God, I decided to try and ask Him daily to allow me to impact eternity today.  I will also schedule a sit-down with the hubby and see how our family values can align with God’s mission of saving souls and making disciples.

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All 66 Books: Acts

Need some background info on this series? See here and here.

After my break, I wanted to jump back into my #All66Books series.  One habit that I was able to build consistently in 2019 was reading my Bible.  It is still something I enjoy doing every day, and reading full books in as few sittings as possible has helped my understanding of God’s Word tremulously.  I hope you are enjoying this series and able to dive in and read for yourself.

Dallas Theological Seminary offers some fantastic free classes that I have been able to enjoy.  Including one on Acts.  To prepare for the course, I decided to read the book in its entirety.  For the first time ever.  After reading Letters To The Church by Francis Chan for the first time, I knew that I needed to learn for myself what Jesus wanted the Church to look like.  And Acts is all about the early church.  According to Crossway, it takes 2 hours and 15 minutes to read the whole book.

Just a reminder, it’s best to let scripture interpret scripture. I like these resources because they help me better understand scripture, but I may not agree with everything they say. As in all things, pray and invite God to help you in your time of reading and studying. Allow the Holy Spirit to guide you and use discernment when using resources outside of the Bible itself. “Do your best to present yourself to God as one approved, a worker who does not need to be ashamed and who correctly handles the word of truth.” (2 Timothy 2:15 NIV)

Here are some additional resources I recommend looking into after you read Acts through on your own:

Dallas Theological Seminary

Free Acts Course

The Bible Project

BibleTalk.TV

FYI these messages are taught as Luke/Acts.  Videos 1-13 cover Luke and 14-26 cover Acts, which is what is included below.

Leave me a comment below if you have taken the 2 hours and 15 minutes to read the book of Acts.  Do you know any other great resources for this book?  Leave them below.

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All 66 Books: Getting Started

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Resources

While on my Sabbatical, I decided to retake a look at the resources; the ones I previously found (The Bible Project, BibleTalk.TV, and Precepts For Life) and ones that I recently discovered.  The first resource I looked into was some free classes offered by Dallas Theological Seminary.  I remembered how much I loved the overall Bible class that I took in college, so I decided to start with “Can You Trust The Bible.”  The course gives a breakdown of how we got the Bible and how it was canonized.  Then I took “How to Read the Bible Like A Seminary Professor.” I felt like it was time to dive into their classes on the books of the Bible and randomly picked Romans.  It only covered the first eight chapters, but I read those chapters while completing the course, and it was what I used to do a more in-depth study.  At this time, I also realized that if I wanted to connect with God, I needed to do a better job of reading His Word daily.  Somewhere in all my searching, I came across the fact that Psalm 119 was the longest chapter in the Bible, and it also happened to be all about God’s Word.  I started to read this chapter as part of my daily reading slowly.  The next resource, while not typical, was Letters To The Church by Francis Chan. This book was eye-opening for me.  It explained how different our churches today (specifically western churches) are from the first-century churches and what Jesus wanted.  I couldn’t tell you anything about what the church should look like because I barely made it past the Gospels when it came to reading the New Testament.

Around the same time, I found this fantastic infographic from Crossway on Thankful Homemakers Podcast that outlined the amount of time it took to read each of the books and the major sections of the Bible.  I could spend anywhere between 2 minutes and a little less than 5 hours and read whole books of the Bible. I realized that one thing the resources had in common is they made me want to jump in and read the Bible.  Full passages, whole chapters, entire books.  I no longer wanted to read one verse and then read someone else’s thoughts about that verse.  I wanted to see what the Word of God said for itself.  And this infographic made me realize that it wasn’t as daunting as I thought.  Especially if I just dive in and start reading. So I began to do just that.  I sat a goal for myself to sit and read a book of the Bible in as few sessions as possible.  And I started with the New Testament.  I wanted to know what Jesus said His church should look like.  What are things I should be doing as a Christian?

I want to be very clear; this is not my Bible study.  That is something that I do only after I read the books as a part of what I’m affectionately calling #All66Books. Reading each book in as few sittings as possible helps you grasp a better understanding of the theme of the book and how it fits into the whole narrative of the biblical story.  Which then makes it easier to know which book God may be leading you to study later.

A few things I’ve noticed:

  • The more I prioritized God’s Word, the more time He gave me for other things.
  • I do actually have time to read the Bible.
  • My vision became clear.  Things I wasn’t sure of, I was able to hear from God more clearly on.
  • I can easily recognize when someone is saying something that isn’t biblical truth.

 

The reverse is true, as well.  When I walk away from my Bible for a few days, maybe only looking at 1-2 verses, I feel like I am losing time, and I am not listening to God as well.  My days don’t flow right.  Remember in the last post when I was talking about it was the church that was teaching me how to be a “good Christian”?  By reading the Bible for myself, I learned how wrong I was in that way of thinking.  The fruit of my obedience comes from my relationship with Christ that grows the more I am reading and understanding His Word.  My prayers, my worship, my generosity, my relationships all grow from my connection to God through His Word.

But overall, I know how overwhelming and daunting it was to simply just start reading the Bible.  My first recommendation is to grab a regular Bible and read a book through.  You don’t NEED any of the additional resources to start reading the Bible.  What I found is, sometimes having all of those extra resources was actually preventing me from merely reading God’s Word.  I felt I didn’t have time. I thought it was too much work. I felt like I didn’t understand any of it.  It wasn’t until I just simply read what God’s Word said that I began to see the bigger picture. Then and only then, did I start using additional resources.  I want to share what I have found that now helps me after I have read each book.  Whether it’s me just trying to get more of the Word in my day or if I’m ready to dive a little deeper into each book.  I’ll share what I’ve tried, what stuck, and what didn’t.  There are so many resources and different ways to study the Bible.  If something isn’t working, don’t be afraid to try something else.

I hope you can join me on this journey.  Leave me a comment if you are getting started with reading the Bible and what you feel like your biggest challenges are.  Stay tuned for next week, where we jump into the book of the Bible that I read first.

*Come back to this post where I will link future post for each book/section of the Bible*

Old Testament | Genesis | Exodus | LeviticusNumbers | Deuteronomy | Joshua | Judges | Ruth | 1st Samuel | 2nd Samuel | 1st Kings | 2nd Kings | 1st Chronicles | 2nd Chronicles | Ezra | Nehemiah | Esther | Job | Psalms | Proverbs | Ecclesiastes | Song of Songs | Isaiah | Jeremiah | Lamentations | Ezekiel | Daniel | Hosea | Joel | Amos | Obadiah | Jonah | Micah | Nahum | Habakkuk | Zephaniah | Haggai | Zechariah | Malachi

New Testament | Matthew | Mark | Luke | John | Acts | Romans | 1st Corinthians | 2nd Corinthians | Galatians | Ephesians | Philippians | Colossians | 1st Thessalonians | 2nd Thessalonians | 1st Timothy | 2nd Timothy | Titus | Philemon | Hebrews | James | 1st Peter | 2nd Peter | 1st John | 2nd John | 3rd John | Jude | Revelation

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Down The TBR Hole

Down the TBR Hole #141-160

Welcome to Down the TBR Hole #141-160!  What is Down the TBR Hole?  It is where I grab 20 books from my insanely long TBR list on Goodreads and decide if I am keeping or removing the books.  Need to catch up?  Click here to go to the previous post.  As a reminder, here are the rules:

I am starting with 4,668 books this week on my To Read shelf on Goodreads.  I literally just added two new books, thanks to the YouTube video I am watching in the background while typing this up.  (Edit: before I finished this post, I added another book thanks to my reading last night.  Do you see why I have to do this post every week?  My list is ridiculous!) Let’s get started.

1. The Runaway Bride: Are you living for Jesus or are you running away from Him? by Heather Lindsey

The cover of this book makes it seems like it is going to be a fiction book, but it’s not.  This is entirely the wrong thought, but man, I feel like so many people should read a book about being a Sunday only Christian.  I’ve been there, and although things are far from perfect and let’s be honest, sometimes I feel like I struggle more now, I can’t imagine how people get through Monday through Saturday without the help of Jesus.  Now, with all of that said, I no longer feel like I need a book like this.  So I am going to be removing it.

 

2. The Pressure Trap: Breaking Free from the Pressures of Society to Become Who God Called You To Be by Heather Lindsey

I may need to actually buy this book and read it now because I feel like this has been my issue for the past few months.  With that said, I am keeping it.

 

3. Present Over Perfect: Leaving Behind Frantic for a Simpler, More Soulful Way of Living by Shauna Niequist

I actually own this book and feel like it has been recommended to me a bunch of times.   This is probably a book that I should have read when I was experiencing burnout.  Both when I was traditionally working and when I had my own business.  I do believe this is something that I could still struggle with, so I am keeping it.

4. One Minute Business Woman’s Devotional by Mike Murdock

Obviously, the cover shows how dated this book is, but it was recommended on one of my business lists.  It would be interesting if someone were able to update this based on today’s business world.  Because I feel like it may be dated and this isn’t my current season, I am removing it.

 

5. The Perfect Find by Tia Williams

This seems like a quick, quirky little romance that I wouldn’t mind reading in between my self-improvement books.  Those books can sometimes be a bit heavy, so reading about a woman who is working on a second chance in her career with a side of romance sounds like it would be the break I need.  I am keeping it.

 

6. You and Me Forever: Marriage in Light of Eternity by Francis Chan & Lisa Chan

I will say this with every marriage book on my list. Marriage is hard, and therefore I am keeping this book.  I absolutely love Francis Chan (check out my resource page on him) and have already read a few of his books.  So a book on biblical marriage is a no brainer for me to keep.  I also had this downloaded on Hoopla, but I had read quite a few Francis Chan books by this point and wanted to switch it up.

7. Turn Your Eyes Upon Jesus by Ellie Claire

So here is some honesty.  I love buying these journals.  Yet I have not finished one at all.  I barely do them.  One of the goals I want to set for this year to help improve the health of my spiritual life is to add these types of devotionals for me to do each day.  But I do have a ton and don’t need to buy anymore until they are done.  So I will be removing this one.

8. The Meaning of Marriage: Facing the Complexities of Commitment with the Wisdom of God by Timothy J. Keller

Like I mentioned with the marriage book above, marriage is hard, so I will be keeping this one.  I need to read a book on marriage each month.  I’ll probably add this to my list of goals soon.

 

9. Gods at War: Defeating the Idols that Battle for Your Heart by Kyle Idleman

I added this book because I was going through a season where I was allowing some pretty good and Christian things to become idols in my life.  Like going to church each week, serving at church, people, etc. I struggled with seeing these things as idols until I realized that anything that is taking God’s place in my life is an idol.  So I am keeping this one.

 

10. Women Don’t Ask: Negotiation and the Gender Divide by Linda Babcock

There are certain topics that to understand them truly, we need to read the most up to date information.  So while this is still a significant issue in today’s workforce, I would want to read a book a little more recent.  So I am going to remove this one.

 

11. The Career Code: Must-Know Rules for a Strategic, Stylish, and Self-Made Career by Hillary Kerr & Katherine Power

I love a good women’s empowerment and success story.  And I am so thankful that these women are willing to share what worked and didn’t work for them.  This book is apart of a series, and I would like to read them all.  So I am keeping this one.

 

12. Wild and Free: A Hope-Filled Anthem for the Woman Who Feels She is Both Too Much and Never Enough by Jess Connolly

I bounce between feeling like I am doing too much and that I’m not enough to do the things I want to do.  It’s a struggle, and I’ve realized that the more I don’t take care of my mental health, the more I struggle.  I own a copy of this book, and I look forward to reading it.  So I am keeping it.

13. How to Be Here: A Guide to Creating a Life Worth Living by Rob Bell

One verse that has made me realize that I deserve so much more in life is John 10:10b (CSB) “I have come so that they may have life and have it in abundance.” This tells me that Jesus gives me an abundant life.  I should be living my life that way.  So because of that, I am keeping this book.

 

 

14. May Cause Miracles: A 40-Day Guidebook of Subtle Shifts for Radical Change and Unlimited Happiness by Gabrielle Bernstein

This is probably one of those books I need to read during my Year of Healthy while I am working on building better habits.  Anything that helps with unlimited happiness is something I need to look into.  I am keeping this one.

15. Adventures for Your Soul: 21 Ways to Transform Your Habits and Reach Your Full Potential by Shannon Kaiser

Another book I should look into reading this year.  I think I tried to listen to the audiobook version, and I prefer to have my self-improvement books in ebook or physical book form because I love taking notes and highlighting.  But I am keeping this one.

16. The Desire Map by Danielle LaPorte

I’m a little torn about this book.  A life planning tool sounds like something right up my ally.  But it seems like this book may be borderline mystic, and those types of books can some times conflict with my faith, and I prefer not to read them.  So I will keep this one and give it a try.  I can always mark it as DNF (did not finish).

 

17. Healthy Happy Sexy: Ayurveda Wisdom for Modern Women by Katie Silcox

The first thing I needed to do was google Ayurveda.  I needed to make sure this wasn’t anything that was going to go against my faith.  I was stumped at first because the first articles that pop up are WebMD, National Institutes of Health, and Johns Hopkins. But when I dig deeper, I see that it has its origins with Hindu gods and is based on holistic healing. I can get down with Holistic healing, but I’m not about to open the door for any other “gods” to have any access to my mind, body, and spirit.  So I will be removing this one.

18. Miracles Now: 108 Life-Changing Tools for Less Stress, More Flow, and Finding Your True Purpose by Gabrielle Bernstein

I stress and worry way too much to be as blessed as I am.  It’s definitely something I want to work on this year. I also like the fact that these are small tidbits of info and practices for someone with only a minute or two.  I am keeping this one.

 

19. 100 Ways to Love Your Husband: A Life-Long Journey of Learning to Love by Lisa Jacobson

Again…marriage=hard.   Any book that I can read that can help me be a better wife, help me understand my husband more, help me love him more, I am all for reading.  I am keeping this one.

 

20. The Sea of Tranquility by Katja Millay

I read the plot of this book, and my first thought was awww in such a sad way.  Have I ever shared how randomly emotional I am?  I cry very frequently when things get sad in a book, tv show, movie, or with a random thought.  And it’s usually boohoo crying.  It’s terrible but I chalk it up to feeling deeply.  I feel like this book will make me do just that.  So I am keeping it.

 

Final Count: Removing 5; Keeping 15

TBR Down to 4,663

Have you read any of these books?  Think I made a mistake removing one?  Leave me a comment below and let’s chat.

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Book Review: Letters To The Church by Francis Chan

Title: Letters To The Church

Author: Francis Chan

Genre: Christian

Publisher: David C. Cook

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Thanks to this book,  I won’t be able to look or think about the local church the same.  Coming off a year where I was starting to feel a stirring in my spirit, while on my Sabattical, I wanted to learn more about what God had planned for the Church.  I came across this book and since then have read it twice along with the book of Acts and most of the letters Paul wrote to the New Testament churches.  I don’t know if this is the right thing to say, but it single-handedly got me back into reading my Bible and learning from God Himself what I should be looking for in a church but also myself.  This was my first introduction to Francis Chan, and if you have read my other reviews, you know that I have since read a good amount of his books. This is by far, my favorite and is easily in my top five books from this year.

My Thoughts:

Letters to the Church starts with the story of Francis Chan leaving the megachurch he helped start and his journey of moving towards creating churches that were more aligned with what he read in the New Testament.  He and the elders originally began to question if they were doing enough.  They started by making some changes to see if the church was genuinely based on love, if they were too dependant on the pastor and if they were holding others from walking in their gifts. It definitely impacted their church as he says one member felt like the rules were being changed on him.  Hearing the word rules connect to church hurts my heart, and lets me know how far we have come away from the time of Christ.  Jesus specifically called out those that follow the rules but don’t obey what God says or show love, which I believe helps you obey His other commands.  There are even warnings in the Old Testament from the prophets.  “Then Samuel said: Does the Lord take pleasure in burnt offerings and sacrifices as much as in obeying the Lord? Look: To obey is better than sacrifice, to pay attention is better than the fat of rams. For rebellion is like the sin of divination, and defiance is like wickedness and idolatry.  Because you have rejected the word of the Lord, he has rejected you as king.” – 1 Samuel 15:22-23

Chan and his family ended up traveling overseas for a bit after leaving his church and were able to see the spreading of the gospel in the simplest of terms.  After a while, they came back to the U.S. and started We Are Church. We Are Church is a ministry that begins churches out of the home.  No buildings, no pastoral staff, no budget.  Once they have 15-20 members, they start a new church using 1-2 members from the previous church to act as leaders, and that term is used loosely.  The small congregation allows for more of a community feel to be the actual Church.  Each member has a purpose, and their gift is used.  Each member has the potential to lead their own church if needed.

Chan warns that this book may be appealing to those who have experienced church hurt and are looking for a way to attack the church due to preferences.  That isn’t the purpose, and after experiencing some church hurt myself, it takes a lot of prayers to see the problem in the American churches through the lenses of only the Bible.  Megachurches are popular.  The music has to be right. The lighting has to be correct.  They have to have the right program for children, women, men, singles, married folks, etc.  Trust me, I’ve been there.  Going from my first home church to my second home church, it took a while to get used to the music and the screen from being at a satellite location.  But can I tell you none of that was essential and didn’t matter when I started reading my Bible?  Chan recommends that we need to be motived by biblical conviction. All of those things that we can find to complain about are more to do with the church building and the people inside that building.  Those things are all items added to services to make as many people as possible comfortable.  With that said he recommends having your Bible open while reading the book so you can reference for yourself the scriptures he points out.

Chan reminds us of the reverence we should have towards God, how we should approach prayer and the fact that the Church is God’s bride, and we are His temple and should treat them as such. On top of those things being missing from today’s church, we aren’t “devoted” like the first-century churches were.  We confuse being the Church with going to church.  Which means for 90 minutes a week, we are being the Church by fellowshipping with believers, worshiping God, and reading the Word. Does that sound like devotion?  We should be devoting ourselves to the Word, communion, fellowship, and prayer at all times to experience God truly. Doing all of that makes the Church a family that should be unified and the fruit of that should be Biblical love that should be shown to everyone, including the lost.

It also helps you to see who Jesus was, a servant.  You should be encouraged to be more like Jesus and serve.  But Chan speaks on how many in the church are consumers.  We don’t realize the benefits of serving, in the church, or outside the church.  It wasn’t honestly until I became a team lead for a serving team at my previous church that I realized just how many people don’t serve in the church.  Many excuses are given, but what I saw mostly was the church was heavily dependant on the volunteers they had, and they were often overworked and burnt out.  But people don’t realize that if more people serve, that won’t happen. Another reason is the church doesn’t use people for their gifts.  You see many leaders and the same people (the dangers of cliques) getting the spotlight or doing certain things in the church over and over again.

One of the concerns Chan expresses is the American church’s need to get people in the door.  Because that is our focus, we don’t care about the type of Christians we are making. We aren’t making Christians that are truly devoted to Christ.  We aren’t making leaders.  We aren’t equipping every member of the church to go out and shephard others.  Maybe if more people were in that position, we would also do a better job of how we treat and react to Pastors.  We would do a better job of understanding the challenges that pastors face while even knowing how to challenge false teachers.  It’s a delicate balance that we have to learn to ensure that we aren’t doing the work of the enemy to destroy the Church.  Because of this and the fact that we should all be working towards being equipped and equipping others, Chan spends a lot of time addressing pastors and leaders.

The topic of complete surrender is something that I struggled with.  And I believe many American Christians would struggle as well.  Most of us don’t have to sacrifice anything to believe in Jesus.  We don’t lose our families, we don’t have to give up our livelihood, and our lives are not in danger.  But the New Testament is clear about the fact that as Christ-followers, we will endure suffering.  For us, though, suffering often means being rejected by the rest of the world and not bending to be accepted.  Or not being comfortable enough with certain sin just to have more people coming into the faith or worst put up with our faith.  We, as Christian, should be different from the rest of the world.  Our lines should not be a blur.

As I mentioned before, I first read this book during my Sabbatical when I was dealing with some church hurt.  But I was thinking of leaving my previous church home for months before I experienced that hurt for myself.  I had questions about many of the things that Chan brought up in this book and was happy that I was able to be directed to scripture to help me not only deal with my questions but make me feel comfortable enough with leaving my previous church home.  Not only was I leaving a physical building, but I was losing a lot of what I thought was the community I had built.  But I had to realize that if Christ wasn’t at the center of those relationships, they weren’t real relationships which explains how they were able to fall apart when I left.  We must remember that the physical location of where we worship on Sunday means nothing when we are not the Church Sunday through Saturday.  The Bible, along with this book, helped me see what I needed going forward to be the Church, find my new church home and to find a true community that is God-centered.  And that is why this book earned 5-stars from me.

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Book Review: Erasing Hell – What God Said About Eternity, and the Things We’ve Made Up by Francis Chan

Title: Erasing Hell – What God Said About Eternity, and the Things We’ve Made Up

Author: Francis Chan

Genre: Christian

Publisher: David C. Cook

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This is book 3 out of 4 from The Francis Chan Collection that I downloaded on Hoopla as an eBook. Before I started reading the book, I took some time to figure out what I knew about Hell.  The little I was able to come up with was what I heard rarely spoken about in church or from others and was more to do with why I needed to do something to avoid going to hell.  I realized very quickly that I had very little Biblical knowledge of Hell, and that is what Francis Chan walks you through with his book Erasing Hell. He looks at if there is a Hell and what it is and what it isn’t.

My Thoughts:

This book has a lot of research in it.  While I don’t mind that, I know this type of “scholarly” book could be a turn off for others.  For me, I like to see all of the research that was done to form an opinion.  It’s also a great way to see who your favorite authors are reading and studying.  Francis Chan begins by discussing the subject of if Hell exists by examining the types of Christians that believe everyone can be saved and the scriptures they use to establish their arguments.  By doing this, it brings up an excellent point: context matters.  Taking one verse or a piece of a verse to make it say what we want or so it says something that makes us feel good is irresponsible. This is one of the reasons I have made it a point to read whole books of the Bible in one or as few sittings as possible to understand the full context.  One idea that I loved that Chan recommends was for the reader to forget all of our preconceived notions.  Not only about Hell but also about Jesus.  He admits how we can see Jesus and probably by default the rest of the Bible through our 21st-century eyes.  Well actually, I think we see the Old Testament and parts of the New Testament as a previous time and use that as an excuse to why we don’t have to follow some of the commands.  By giving us the background of a first-century Jew, we can better understand the context of what we are trying to study in the scriptures.

The next discussion on hell is if it is a place to go for correction or punishment.  Chan uses Jewish text from the time of Jesus as well as scripture to conclude that it is for punishment.  On whether it’s everlasting or not, Chan feels it is still up in the air and not an explicit agreement.  He leans toward everlasting based on some scripture, but due to the possible confusion, he wants you to focus on Jesus’ original message when discussing hell: Avoid it.  Chan didn’t want to say that hell was everlasting specifically, but it’s evident in the book of Revelation that it is.  I wonder if he didn’t want to commit because Jesus didn’t say it explicitly? But if we believe that all of the Bible is God’s inerrant work that would include what John wrote in Revelation.  I’ve read Matthew plenty of times (anyone else have great intentions to read the NT and start with Matthew only to come to a screeching halt at John? Just me? Okay), and many of Chan’s scriptures references about hell came from Matthew.  I was shocked because I wouldn’t have been able to describe hell the way Jesus describes it.  Why not?  Because when taught about the gospel or doing a Bible study or even studying it for myself previously, I was taught to focus on the good things Christ wants for us and Christ Himself.  I skim right through what happens when someone doesn’t obey and focus on what I need to follow.  This is dangerous for me to do if I want to call myself a disciple.  I need to understand what happens to unbelievers so I can explain it when spreading the gospel.

There is a particular paragraph in the book that spoke to my new feelings for the past 6-9 months. Something just hasn’t been feeling right with the go to church every week, and I’m called a Christian or read a daily devotional and life will work out mentality.  It just seems like there was more to life that I was missing.  Especially when I started to read and study the Bible for myself as the Bible recommends, that confirmed something was missing. This is why one of the things I found that I love doing is letting others know that they can read and study the Bible for themselves.  It’s what is helping me through my sabbatical, and I look forward to what I am learning each day about God’s Word.  So it sticks out when James says, “Not many of you should become teachers, my brothers, for you know that we who teach will be judged with greater strictness.” (3v1 ESV) and “So also the tongue is a small member, yet it boasts of great things. How great a forest is set ablaze by such a small fire!” (3v5 ESV).  It also sticks out because it, in my opinion, shows the danger of following those so blindly that are suppose to be leading and teaching us.  How many take these passages so seriously?  I think if more did, we would see more teaching coming from the Word of God and covering all aspects of it.

After laying out what he considered the facts about hell, Chan then turns his attention to what those mean for the everyday Christian. Chan feels like according to scripture, believers can still find themselves facing hellfire and brimstone.  How?  False teaching, greed, hate, our speech, amongst other things.  This section is where my action steps would come from.  What’s coming out of my mouth?  What am I doing to combat hate?  How am I helping the poor?  I gave Erasing Hell 4-stars. The book did its job of providing a lot of details about Hell itself, why it’s a real place based on scripture and historical text, which led me to walk away with a better understanding of Hell after reviewing the scriptures for myself.  It’s a place I want no part of, nor do I want those around me to experience it either.  It’s my prayer that God helps me see what I can do differently to help those around me avoid Hell.

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Author Resources: Francis Chan

Francis Chan is former Pastor of Cornerstone Church in California, speaker, and author of the following books:

Crazy Love

Forgotten God

Letters To The Church

You and Me Forever

Multiply

Erasing Hell

The Francis Chan Collection

 

Websites and Social Media

Crazy Love has what looks to be Francis Chan’s sermons from 2018 and older.  There is also a page for his podcast on Soundcloud and you can find his events although it doesn’t look like there are any future events scheduled.  You can also purchase his books here.

We Are Church has details on the new format of church that Francis Chan is teaching in the California area.  There is also a great resource on Bible reading that their church uses.

Apple Podcast

Facebook

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YouTube

Twitter

 

Favorite Quotes From Crazy Love

It’s up to you to respond to what you read. But you will have a choice: to adjust how you live daily or to stay the same.

A relationship with God simply cannot grow when money, sins, activities, favorite sports teams, addictions, or commitments are piled on top of it.

The fact is, I need God to help me love God.

It is a remarkable cycle: Our prayers for more love result in love, which naturally causes us to pray more, which results in more love….

If one person “wastes” away his day by spending hours connecting with God, and the other person believes he is too busy or has better things to do than worship the Creator and Sustainer, who is the crazy one?

 

From Forgotten God

When believers live in the power of the Spirit, the evidence in their lives is supernatural.

Many have the knowledge but lack the courage to admit the discrepancy between what we know and how we live.

There will always be more of His character to discover, more of His love to experience, and more of His power to use for His purposes.

The problem is much of what we believe is often based more on comfort or our culture’s tradition than on the Bible.

God calls us to pursue Him, not what He might do for us or even in our midst.

Why would we need to experience the Comforter if our lives are already comfortable?

It takes time to quiet your mind and your heart before the Lord.

God cares more about our response to His Spirit’s leading today, in this moment, than about what we intend to do next year.

This business of sanctification is a lifelong process we are engaged in.

If GOD truly lives in you, shouldn’t you expect to be different from everyone else?

It saddened me to think that a gang could paint a better picture of commitment, loyalty, and family than the local church body.

 

From Erasing Hell

Test all your assumptions against the precious words God gave us in the Bible.

Let’s be eager to leave what is familiar for what is true.

Refusing to teach a passage of Scripture is just as wrong as abusing it.

How will Jesus respond to your laundry list of Christian activities—your Easter services, tithe, Bible studies, church potlucks, and summer-camp conversions?

God is good not only when He makes sense to us, but even when He doesn’t.

Chan, Francis. Crazy Love: Overwhelmed by a Relentless God. Cook. Kindle Edition.

Chan, Francis. Forgotten God: Reversing Our Tragic Neglect of the Holy Spirit. Cook. Kindle Edition.

Chan, Francis. Erasing Hell: What God Said About Eternity, and the Things We’ve Made Up. Cook. Kindle Edition.

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Book Review: Crazy Love – Overwhelmed by a Relentless God by Francis Chan

Title: Crazy Love: Overwhelmed by a Relentless God

Author: Francis Chan

Genre: Christian

Publisher: David C. Cook

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I added this book to my To Be Read list after reading Letters to the Church, also by Francis Chan.  I was able to download The Francis Chan Collection (includes Forgotten God, Erasing Hell and Multiply also) using Hoopla as an eBook.  This version was a revised and updated edition even though Francis Chan said that he kept everything the same and just added a chapter to give an update on him.  This book asks you to look at your opinion of God and if your life shows the fruit of that opinion.  I made sure that I had my Bible with me to be sure that the ideals and scriptures Francis Chan was sharing matched closely to Biblical Truth since that is his stance: Using the Bible.  His opinion is that the American church has fallen away from the New Testament Church.  Chan walks us through some changes that he made for the church he used to lead as well as his definition of what fearing God sincerely looks like and how our lives should reflect that awe.

My thoughts:

Crazy Love required me to do a lot of meditating and reflecting on if I made God common.  It’s simple to forget how awestruck we should be when we take a moment to pause and think of Him as the Creator.  I asked myself if I take the time to be in awe of God and all that He is, all that He does and all that He has done for me.  Then it made me also realize that I could think of the people in my life as common.  I take advantage of them being there and don’t take time to pause and be thankful for what they bring into my life.  I also added the word “relationship” to my future study list.  I want to see what the Bible says about having a relationship with God.

How differently would my life look if I lived every day as if it could be my last?  Deep question, right?  Chan expressed that by focusing on eternity and our mortality, it would cause us to live a different type of life for Christ.  Chan also appears to challenge what it truly means to be saved, expressing that in the Gospel’s, Jesus seems to be “all or nothing”.  The example given was the Parable of the Sower (Matthew 13:3-9, 19-23; Luke 8:5-15) and how the different types of soil did not yield the same result.  It was only the good soil that bears fruit and yields.  While Chan later agrees that we are saved by faith alone, he points out that our works are essential.

This all leads to what it means to surrender to God sincerely.  Chan admits that many will think his way of thinking is radical, and there will be pushback, but it makes you think, why do we consider living our full life for Christ as radical?  Chan gives examples of his time overseas and the difference between those that had to give up their families and livelihood to serve Christ.  Compared to American Christians who tend to put God in a box labeled Sunday. Does my life currently show my sacrifices for Christ? Does my life show or reflect my love for Christ?  Am I living above my means while others are living in poverty? What can I give up?

This, of course, made me think about tithing and wondering what my church does with it.  Is it going to administrative responsibilities and salaries?  Or am I taking care of those that can’t care for themselves like orphans and widows?  Do I have to give my tithe to the Church, or can I give it to the local orphanage?  When I decide to fast, instead of focusing on what I can’t have, how about I take the food or money I would spend and give it to the local homeless shelter? What if instead of serving ” God’s House” on Sunday morning, I decide to go out and serve God’s body during the week?  Can I do more, give more, and serve more that way?  Who made these rules anyway?  I feel like the further I study the New Testament and spend time with God, I will get answers to these questions.  How much of what we do today is because of tradition and ease compared to what is genuinely Biblical truth?

Overall, I gave this book 4-stars.  It was an easy read and had my mind spinning on what changes I can make in my life to reflect God’s love.  I will be spending additional time reflecting on how holy God is, appreciating those around me and looking for ways to continue to serve and give to the body of Christ.

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