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Down the TBR Hole #141-160

Welcome to Down the TBR Hole #141-160!  What is Down the TBR Hole?  It is where I grab 20 books from my insanely long TBR list on Goodreads and decide if I am keeping or removing the books.  Need to catch up?  Click here to go to the previous post.  As a reminder, here are the rules:

I am starting with 4,668 books this week on my To Read shelf on Goodreads.  I literally just added two new books, thanks to the YouTube video I am watching in the background while typing this up.  (Edit: before I finished this post, I added another book thanks to my reading last night.  Do you see why I have to do this post every week?  My list is ridiculous!) Let’s get started.

1. The Runaway Bride: Are you living for Jesus or are you running away from Him? by Heather Lindsey

The cover of this book makes it seems like it is going to be a fiction book, but it’s not.  This is entirely the wrong thought, but man, I feel like so many people should read a book about being a Sunday only Christian.  I’ve been there, and although things are far from perfect and let’s be honest, sometimes I feel like I struggle more now, I can’t imagine how people get through Monday through Saturday without the help of Jesus.  Now, with all of that said, I no longer feel like I need a book like this.  So I am going to be removing it.

 

2. The Pressure Trap: Breaking Free from the Pressures of Society to Become Who God Called You To Be by Heather Lindsey

I may need to actually buy this book and read it now because I feel like this has been my issue for the past few months.  With that said, I am keeping it.

 

3. Present Over Perfect: Leaving Behind Frantic for a Simpler, More Soulful Way of Living by Shauna Niequist

I actually own this book and feel like it has been recommended to me a bunch of times.   This is probably a book that I should have read when I was experiencing burnout.  Both when I was traditionally working and when I had my own business.  I do believe this is something that I could still struggle with, so I am keeping it.

4. One Minute Business Woman’s Devotional by Mike Murdock

Obviously, the cover shows how dated this book is, but it was recommended on one of my business lists.  It would be interesting if someone were able to update this based on today’s business world.  Because I feel like it may be dated and this isn’t my current season, I am removing it.

 

5. The Perfect Find by Tia Williams

This seems like a quick, quirky little romance that I wouldn’t mind reading in between my self-improvement books.  Those books can sometimes be a bit heavy, so reading about a woman who is working on a second chance in her career with a side of romance sounds like it would be the break I need.  I am keeping it.

 

6. You and Me Forever: Marriage in Light of Eternity by Francis Chan & Lisa Chan

I will say this with every marriage book on my list. Marriage is hard, and therefore I am keeping this book.  I absolutely love Francis Chan (check out my resource page on him) and have already read a few of his books.  So a book on biblical marriage is a no brainer for me to keep.  I also had this downloaded on Hoopla, but I had read quite a few Francis Chan books by this point and wanted to switch it up.

7. Turn Your Eyes Upon Jesus by Ellie Claire

So here is some honesty.  I love buying these journals.  Yet I have not finished one at all.  I barely do them.  One of the goals I want to set for this year to help improve the health of my spiritual life is to add these types of devotionals for me to do each day.  But I do have a ton and don’t need to buy anymore until they are done.  So I will be removing this one.

8. The Meaning of Marriage: Facing the Complexities of Commitment with the Wisdom of God by Timothy J. Keller

Like I mentioned with the marriage book above, marriage is hard, so I will be keeping this one.  I need to read a book on marriage each month.  I’ll probably add this to my list of goals soon.

 

9. Gods at War: Defeating the Idols that Battle for Your Heart by Kyle Idleman

I added this book because I was going through a season where I was allowing some pretty good and Christian things to become idols in my life.  Like going to church each week, serving at church, people, etc. I struggled with seeing these things as idols until I realized that anything that is taking God’s place in my life is an idol.  So I am keeping this one.

 

10. Women Don’t Ask: Negotiation and the Gender Divide by Linda Babcock

There are certain topics that to understand them truly, we need to read the most up to date information.  So while this is still a significant issue in today’s workforce, I would want to read a book a little more recent.  So I am going to remove this one.

 

11. The Career Code: Must-Know Rules for a Strategic, Stylish, and Self-Made Career by Hillary Kerr & Katherine Power

I love a good women’s empowerment and success story.  And I am so thankful that these women are willing to share what worked and didn’t work for them.  This book is apart of a series, and I would like to read them all.  So I am keeping this one.

 

12. Wild and Free: A Hope-Filled Anthem for the Woman Who Feels She is Both Too Much and Never Enough by Jess Connolly

I bounce between feeling like I am doing too much and that I’m not enough to do the things I want to do.  It’s a struggle, and I’ve realized that the more I don’t take care of my mental health, the more I struggle.  I own a copy of this book, and I look forward to reading it.  So I am keeping it.

13. How to Be Here: A Guide to Creating a Life Worth Living by Rob Bell

One verse that has made me realize that I deserve so much more in life is John 10:10b (CSB) “I have come so that they may have life and have it in abundance.” This tells me that Jesus gives me an abundant life.  I should be living my life that way.  So because of that, I am keeping this book.

 

 

14. May Cause Miracles: A 40-Day Guidebook of Subtle Shifts for Radical Change and Unlimited Happiness by Gabrielle Bernstein

This is probably one of those books I need to read during my Year of Healthy while I am working on building better habits.  Anything that helps with unlimited happiness is something I need to look into.  I am keeping this one.

15. Adventures for Your Soul: 21 Ways to Transform Your Habits and Reach Your Full Potential by Shannon Kaiser

Another book I should look into reading this year.  I think I tried to listen to the audiobook version, and I prefer to have my self-improvement books in ebook or physical book form because I love taking notes and highlighting.  But I am keeping this one.

16. The Desire Map by Danielle LaPorte

I’m a little torn about this book.  A life planning tool sounds like something right up my ally.  But it seems like this book may be borderline mystic, and those types of books can some times conflict with my faith, and I prefer not to read them.  So I will keep this one and give it a try.  I can always mark it as DNF (did not finish).

 

17. Healthy Happy Sexy: Ayurveda Wisdom for Modern Women by Katie Silcox

The first thing I needed to do was google Ayurveda.  I needed to make sure this wasn’t anything that was going to go against my faith.  I was stumped at first because the first articles that pop up are WebMD, National Institutes of Health, and Johns Hopkins. But when I dig deeper, I see that it has its origins with Hindu gods and is based on holistic healing. I can get down with Holistic healing, but I’m not about to open the door for any other “gods” to have any access to my mind, body, and spirit.  So I will be removing this one.

18. Miracles Now: 108 Life-Changing Tools for Less Stress, More Flow, and Finding Your True Purpose by Gabrielle Bernstein

I stress and worry way too much to be as blessed as I am.  It’s definitely something I want to work on this year. I also like the fact that these are small tidbits of info and practices for someone with only a minute or two.  I am keeping this one.

 

19. 100 Ways to Love Your Husband: A Life-Long Journey of Learning to Love by Lisa Jacobson

Again…marriage=hard.   Any book that I can read that can help me be a better wife, help me understand my husband more, help me love him more, I am all for reading.  I am keeping this one.

 

20. The Sea of Tranquility by Katja Millay

I read the plot of this book, and my first thought was awww in such a sad way.  Have I ever shared how randomly emotional I am?  I cry very frequently when things get sad in a book, tv show, movie, or with a random thought.  And it’s usually boohoo crying.  It’s terrible but I chalk it up to feeling deeply.  I feel like this book will make me do just that.  So I am keeping it.

 

Final Count: Removing 5; Keeping 15

TBR Down to 4,663

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Down the TBR Hole #115-140

Welcome to Down the TBR Hole #115-140!  What is Down the TBR Hole?  It is where I grab 20 books from my ridiculously long TBR list on Goodreads and decide if I am keeping or removing the books. Why the odd numbers for this one?  Because I had a series last time that added a bunch to my list. Want to see what I ended up doing with them?  Click here to go to the previous post.  As a reminder, here are the rules:

I am starting with 4,672 books this week on my To Read shelf on Goodreads.  Let’s get started.

 

1. Leaving Time by Jodi Picoult

I’ve heard about this author quite a bit, but I honestly didn’t realize that she was a fiction author.  But after reading what the book is about, I am keeping it on the list.

 

 

2. The Good House by Tananarive Due

Another author that I have heard about a lot, and I have always wanted to read one of her books.  This one is bordering on suspense, but the plot sounds really good.  I am keeping it.

 

 

3. Blindness by Jose Saramago

Not exactly sure where this book came from, but I am not a fan of epidemic or apocalyptic books, and this is one of those.  So I will be removing this one.

 

 

4. The Girl on the Train by Paula Hawkins

A very popular book from 2015.  I think it has even been turned into a movie. My best friend said it was an okay read, but she has read better.  I’m going to give the book a chance, especially before I watch the movie.  I’m keeping this one.

 

5. Hidden Figures by Margot Lee Shetterly

Can I be honest? I typically don’t like reading books after I have seen the movie.  Which is why it is weird that I would have added this book.  I would probably have loved to have read this book back when I was a math geek.  Not so much now.  I did enjoy the movie, but I am going to be removing this one. (Tangent – I hate when they change the cover of the books to match the movie poster.  No offense to the amazing actresses that played these parts, but what about the original ladies who were on the cover? I’m showing that cover out of respect.)

 

6. Love Warrior by Glennon Doyle Melton

I follow Glennon on Instagram, and her activism is actually what made her interesting to me.  She seems to be carefree, and a different person than her book plots describe (this one in particular).  So I would love to see how she transitioned to this new person.  I am keeping this one.

 

7. Carry On, Warrior: Thoughts on Life Unarmed by Glennon Doyle Melton

Same author as above.  I thought about not keeping this book because it looks like it is based on her website, which is Momastery.com.  I’m not a mom, but it appears she speaks about more things than motherhood.  I am going to be keeping it for now.

 

8. Emma by Jane Austen

This is supposed to be one of the classics, and at one point in time, I thought that I needed to read all of the classics to be a “good” reader.  But since then, I’ve realized I only want to read what interests me.  And most likely, a book from the early 1800s will not interest me at all.  I am removing this one.

 

9. Nappily Ever After by Trisha R. Thomas

I’ve had this book on my list for a while now, and then I saw they made a movie.  I ended up watching the movie (I love Sanaa Lathan) and loved it.  I went through my own freedom pursuit that started with changing the color of my hair.  And man, it will change your perspective.  I am keeping this one.

 

10. Yellow Crocus by Laila Ibrahim

It could be because of recent current events, but I’m not that interested in reading about a black woman (a slave at that) having to take care of a white child.  I’m removing this one.

 

11. Invisible Man, Got the Whole World Watching: A Young Black Man’s Education by Mychal Denzel Smith

I added this book because I am interested in seeing what a man thinks about today’s climate for our black boys.  This book seems to cover the highest that we have had as a race with President Obama’s presidency and the lows to the multiple, senseless killing of unarmed black boys and men.  I am keeping this one.

 

12. Lady Elect by Nikita Lynnette Nichols

I don’t think I need to read about any church drama at the moment.  And I know this is against reader’s law, but the cover doesn’t pull me in at all! I am removing this one.

 

 

13. Outlander by Diana Gabaldon

I am not a fan of historical books and think this is another one of those books that everyone talks about like it is a classic.  Or maybe it just has a massive following because I think is has a T.V. show or movie.  I am removing this one.

 

 

14. Written in My Own Heart’s Blood by Diana Gabaldon

Not sure how I randomly went from the 1st in the series to the 8th in the series.  But I removed the previous book, and I am removing this one as well.  But at least I can kind of guess which guy she choose in the first one based on this description.

 

 

15. Bad Feminist by Roxane Gay

The cover was one of the reasons I added this book to my list.  Also, her describing her love for pink was another.  I can’t wait to dive into this book because it seems like it will be full of wit about topics that only women would get the humor of.  I am keeping it.

 

 

16. Pretty Girls by Karin Slaughter

This seems like it would make for an excellent episode for some of the shows that I have been watching on Netflix and Hulu.  I just sent it to my best friend to see if she has read it because it seems like her cup of tea.  She said she started it but didn’t finish it.  I’m going to give this one a chance also.  I am keeping it.

 

17. Cross Roads by William Paul Young

His book, The Shack, was terrific, so I wanted to check out his other books.  Reading about someone in business who is a little on the proud side is interesting to me as I can sometimes be this way and have to continually remind myself that it isn’t me, it is God, who deserves the glory.  I am keeping this one.

 

18. Brida by Paulo Coelho

For some reason, I had the Portugal version on my list, so I had to switch it to the English version.  I enjoyed Paulo Coelho’s book, The Alchemist and it is actually one of the triggers that made me start this blog (read about it here).  This book almost seems like the female version.  I am keeping this one.

 

 

19. Utopia by Thomas Moore

A book published in the 1500s.  I know me, and I know this one won’t work.  But it’s another one that is supposed to be a classic about the differences between a perfect world with true freedom and our current society and all its problems.  I am removing it.

 

20. Freeman by Leonard Pitts, Jr.

This is another book based in the 1800s.  The only way I can see this book (and others like it) coming back on my list is if I am explicitly studying the topic of slavery.  So, for now, I am removing it.

 

 

21. Nigger by Dick Gregory

I’m honestly not sure what to expect from this book because Dick Gregory’s life was so diverse with who he was.  But that will make this book all the more interesting.  I’ve been loving memoirs/autobiographies lately, so I am keeping this one.

 

 

22. The Bone Collector by Jeffery Deaver

This sounds like the type of book that I would enjoy, and I see that it is a series.  While writing this, there is a little memory of watching a movie of the same title with my dad.  I’m seeing Denzel Washington.  I looked it up, and sure enough, the movie was based on the book.  I am keeping it.

 

23. Pink Lips & Empty Hearts by Heather Lindsey

I follow Heather Lindsey (and her husband) on Instagram, and they are so inspirational.  I read their book Fighting Together and loved it.  It was a no brainer for me to add her other books to my list.  I’ve heard bits and pieces of her testimony, but it seems like this book gives the full testimony and how she overcame her struggles.  I am keeping this one.

 

24. Dusty Crowns: Dusting Yourself Off and Becoming the Woman God Called You To Be by Heather Lindsey

I know I sometimes struggle with not feeling good enough and working hard to earn God’s love.  This book seems like it would be a reminder that I already have God’s love.  I am keeping this one.

 

25. Silent Seasons: Trusting God When You Don’t Understand by Heather Lindsey

I haven’t had a silent season personally (not that I am aware of), but I have been fascinated recently with the idea of one.  It just seems like, during that time, God is preparing you.  And prepare has been an interesting feeling for me lately.  Also, “when you don’t understand”…is consistently me.  Which is why I am keeping this book.

 

26. The Purpose Room: A Meeting Place Where You Discover, Birth and Accomplish Your God-Given Purpose by Heather Lindsey

I loved how she said she knew her purpose, and she just needed to figure out how she was going to get there doing what she was currently doing (sitting in a cubicle).  Most purpose books are about finding your purpose, and I don’t need that at the moment.  But I am keeping this one since it seems to come from a different approach.

 

Final Count: Removing 9; Keeping 17

TBR Down to 4,663

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Down The TBR Hole #81-100…or more like 114

Welcome to Down the TBR Hole #81-100!  What is Down the TBR Hole?  It is where I grab 20 books from my ridiculously long TBR list on Goodreads and decide if I am keeping or removing the books.  Want to catch up?  Click here to go to the last post.  As a reminder, here are the rules:

I am starting with 4,670 books this week on my To Read shelf on Goodreads.  Let’s get started.

1. The Fire Starter Sessions: A Soulful + Practical Guide to Creating Success on Your Own Terms by Danielle LaPorte

I’ve only heard of Danielle LaPorte’s book The Desire Map, so I am not sure how this book came on my radar.  But after reading some of her points, she sounds like someone I want to know more about.  And this book is something I want to read about.  I am keeping it.

 

2. The Bourne Identity (Jason Bourne, #1) by Robert Ludlum

When I found out that the movies were based on a book, I wanted to read them.  To be honest, I don’t remember reading too many action & adventure books, so this will be a new genre for me.  But I am willing to give it a chance.  I am keeping it.

 

 

3. The Bourne Series (Jason Bourne, #2 – 15) by Robert Ludlum

And here is the rest of the series.  Yes, I have every book on my TBR list. Which isn’t necessary.  I’m going to read the first book and then decide if I want to add the rest to my list.  So for now, I am removing these from my list.

 

4. The Couple Next Door by Shari Lapena

This book was recommended by my best friend.  I thought I had it downloaded on Audible, but I just checked, and I don’t.  Even though I don’t always enjoy my besties taste in books, this one sounded interesting.  I am keeping it.

 

5. A Mother’s Reckoning: Living in the Aftermath of Tragedy by Sue Klebold 

I think this book interested me because of the question of how could she have not known what was going on with her son.  My first thought was to remove it because I did immediately think about the fact that her family doesn’t deserve the profits from this book.  But I see a note that shows all the author profits are donated to organizations focused on mental health.  So I am keeping it.

 

6. The Underground Railroad by Colson Whitehead

Although I am not a fan of most historical fiction, I added this book because it has been making its way on multiple recommendation list. I’ve also heard good things about Colson Whitehead.  For now, I am keeping this one.

 

7. Between the World and Me by Ta-Nehisi Coates

I’ve heard nothing but positive things about this book and the times that we are in now with the senseless killings of our black boys and the overall campaign to stamp out all things Black Excellence, I think it is more important now than ever to know and understand our history to learn how we can move forward and come together and fight against all of this hate.  I am keeping this one.  By the way, Oprah just announced her revamped Book Club and Ta-Nehisi Coates new book, The Water Dancer, is the current pick.  I’m thinking of downloading the audiobook and joining in the decisions.

 

8. A Brief History of Seven Killings by James Marlon 

I think I added this book after watching a documentary on Bob Marley.  And although this is a fictional account, it still sparked my interest.  I am keeping this one.

 

 

9. Lilith’s Brood by Octavia E. Butler

This seems like a fantasy book, and I don’t like fantasy at all.  I am removing this one.

 

 

10. The Turner House by Angela Flournoy

Not sure how this book ended up on my list, but it seems like an interesting read.  With me normally reading a lot of nonfiction and business books, sometimes I allow fiction books to be my break from my reality.  This being a story about multiple generations coming and going from one house and then having to decide the fate of the home will do just that.  I am keeping this one.

 

11. Silver Sparrow by Tayari Jones

Another fiction book I can find myself getting lost in.  In this one, the story of two friends who end up being sisters due to their father’s deception.  I am keeping this one.

 

 

12. Fervent: A Woman’s Battle Plan to Serious Specific and Strategic Prayer by Priscilla Shirer

I struggle with prayer, and that is why I wanted to read this book.  I am pretty sure I started it but ended up distracted when I was working.  One day I will finish it, so I am keeping it.

 

13. White Witch, Black Curse by Kim Harrison

This is an example of me just adding books to my list without paying any attention.  I don’t do witches.  I don’t do witchcraft.  I don’t do curses.  And even before I started really living for Christ, I was the same way.  I just don’t do “magic.”  With that said, I am removing this book and throwing the blood of Jesus it’s way.

 

14. The Bad Cook by Esther Walker

I love to cook so the idea of someone trying out different recipes and not being all that great is funny to me.  Which is how I think the book is meant to be.  I’m keeping this one for the funny stories alone.

 

 

15. The Purple Hibiscus by Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie

I realized that I tend only to read books that are based in the U.S.  I recently have started to read other books that are based in other countries.  Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie is another author that I have heard great things about so I am keeping this one.

 

16. One Night by Eric Jerome Dickey

I read a good amount of Eric Jerome Dickey books when I was in middle and high school (don’t judge me) and enjoyed them.  I added this book because I wanted to see if he still has the same appeal to me as an adult.  Since I still have that question, I am keeping this one.

 

17. Favor, the Road to Success: How to Receive Special Favor with God and People by Bob Buess

This appears to be an older book (published in 1920), and there have been so many books recently on this topic.  Plus it doesn’t appear to be a classic.  I’m not sure I need to read this one, so I am removing it.

 

18. The Misadventures of Awkward Black Girl by Issa Rae

While I don’t believe I have had the pleasure of watching any of her shows yet, I have had Issa Rae on my radar for a while now.  I am actually starting to love memoirs lately and prefer to listen to them.  This will definitely be one of them.  I am keeping it.

 

 

19. Homegoing by Yaa Gyasi

Again I don’t normally read historical books, but I have heard that this was an amazing book.  I am keeping it.

 

 

20. Queen Sugar by Natalie Baszile

I watched the first couple of shows of Queen Sugar before I took a break from watching TV.  But I decided to add the book that inspired the show to my list.  I still plan on reading it, so I am keeping it.

 

Final Count: Removing 17; Keeping 16

TBR Down to 4,653

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Down The TBR Hole #61-80

Welcome to Down the TBR Hole #61-80! What is Down the TBR Hole?  It is where I grab 20 books from my ridiculously long TBR list on GoodReads and decide if I am keeping or removing the books.  Want to catch up? Click here to go to the last post.  As a reminder, here are the rules:

I am starting with 4,667 books this week on my To Read shelf on Goodreads.  Let’s get started.

1. Give and Take: A Revolutionary Approach to Success by Adam M. Grant

For the longest, I wasn’t a fan of networking and didn’t believe in it.  I didn’t agree with the phrase “It’s about who you know” because I am a firm believer that hard work will get you everywhere.  But in Corporate America (and in entrepreneurship) that isn’t true anymore.  That is why this book was added to my list.  At this time, this isn’t my focus, and I am not sure when it will be again, so I am removing this one.

2. #GIRLBOSS by Sophia Amoruso

I’ve heard great things about this book, and it has made its way on everyone’s recommendation list the past few years.  Sophia has a unique story, and I always like learning about people who didn’t take the traditional path to be successful.  I am keeping this one.

 

3. Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill

I think this book is considered a classic in the Self Improvement/Business world of books.  It’s one where I feel like I should have already read it but just never got around to it.  At least I don’t believe I have.  My father may have owned this one or the version for African Americans, and I am pretty sure I read it in high school, but I don’t remember it at all.  But just because a book is a classic doesn’t mean YOU have to read it.  At this time, I don’t have any interest in the book, so I am removing it.

4. How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie

If you know me, you know I struggle with being a people person.  I feel awkward talking to people, and I would much rather be on my own.  But you kind of need people and community in this world.  Which is why an old coworker and friend recommended this book to me (says a lot, right?). I never got around to reading it and while building community is a priority for me, I want to do it more from a biblical standpoint.  I am removing this one.

 

5. Zero to One: Notes on Startups, or How to Build the Future by Peter Thiel

I’m honestly not sure how this book ended up on my list, but it’s not anything I am focused on at the moment (starting a business), so I am removing this one.

 

6. Never Eat Alone: And Other Secrets to Success, One Relationship at a Time by Keith Ferrazzi

Another book added to my list when I was trying to be a better people person.  I’m just not in the stage of life where I want to build relationships for business reasons.  I want to develop more of a community with support.  For that reason, I am removing this one.

 

7. The Hard Thing About Hard Things: Building a Business When There Are No Easy Answers by Ben Horowitz

This book appealed to me for two reasons.  I liked that it states HOW hard it is to run a business.  Everyone glamourizes entrepreneurship, but not many people tell you how hard it actually is.  The other reason was using hip hop lyrics to give his advice.  It’s a gimmick that makes me want to read it, so I am keeping it.

8. The 4-Hour Workweek by Timothy Ferriss

I am currently making my way through Tim Ferriss’ Tools of Titans book and man oh man; it has been amazing.  I did have this book first but heard so many great things about Tools of Titans that I purchased and started that one.  With that said, I am becoming a massive fan of Tim Ferriss and can’t wait to read this book.  I am keeping it.

 

9. Mindset: The New Psychology of Success by Carol S. Dweck

I’ve always had an interest in psychology and probably, in the last five years, have questioned why people think the way they think more times than I can count.  I am still very much interested in reading the book but now more from the standpoint of how MY mindset will be impacted.  I am keeping it.

 

10. Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can’t Stop Talking by Susan Cain

This book has quietly crept up (see what I did there?) on book list in the last few years, and as an introvert that has been trying to cut out so much noise from the world lately, it was bound to end up on my list.  I am keeping it.

 

 

11. Predictably Irrational: The Hidden Forces That Shape Our Decisions by Dan Ariely

Why do I make the decisions that I make?  That is what I was hoping this book answered for me.  Although still a substantial question, I am not sure I’m going to find the answer within these pages.  I am removing it.

 

12. Liar’s Poker by Michael Lewis

I think I thought this book was about something different than Wall Street.  Or maybe I added it after watching a movie.  I’m not sure but either way, I am removing it.

 

13. How Will You Measure Your Life? by Clayton M. Christensen

Clayton’s story alone made this a book I was interested in, but his connection to high achievers and unhappiness is what planted it on my list to read.  I am keeping it.

 

14. The Intelligent Investor by Benjamin Graham

When venturing into the finance world and potentially looking into financial planning, I knew I needed to learn more about investing.  That career path has sailed, and while this is still probably a great book on a topic, I should know a little about, other things are my priority at the moment.  I am removing it.

 

15. Crossing the Unknown Sea: Work as a Pilgrimage of Identity by David Whyte

While reading the synopsis of this book, I was actually torn about if I wanted to keep it or not.  I love the idea of personal growth at work and would like to know more about why burnout is a good thing, but the poetry part is throwing me off a bit.  For now, I will say I am keeping it.

 

 

16. Steve Jobs by Walter Isaacson

Not only am I a huge Apple fan but the man behind the company has always been fascinating to me.  I’ve read bits and pieces about his life story and knew I wanted to read this book.  I am keeping it.

 

17. Choose Yourself: Be Happy, Make Millions, Live the Dream by James Altucher

I’ve had the opportunity to buy this book a few times, but it has never grabbed me enough to pull the trigger.  I do agree with the concept that we have to choose ourselves, especially when moving forward in today’s world.  But I am removing this one.

 

18. Creativity, Inc.: Overcoming the Unseen Forces That Stand in the Way of True Inspiration by Ed Catmull

I’ll be honest and say this book probably grabbed my attention by having Buzz Lightyear on the cover.  Granted, it is a business book from the creators of Pixar, so it does hold my interest beyond that.  But not enough.  I am removing it.

 

19. Act Like A Leader, Think Like A Leader by Herminia Ibarra

This was a book that was added to my list when I was toying with the idea of moving into a management position at my previous company.  I think leadership is essential in all areas of life, but it isn’t a focus for me this year, so I am removing this one.

 

 

20. The Tipping Point: How Little Things Can Make A Big Difference by Malcolm Gladwell

I can’t find a reason to keep this one, so I am removing it.

 

 

Final Count: Removing 12; Keeping 8

TBR down to 4,655

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Down The TBR Hole # 41-60

I had so much fun doubling up last week that I decided to make it a thing. So welcome to Down The TBR Hole #41-60.  What is Down The TBR Hole, you ask?  It is where I grab 20 books from my ridiculously long TBR list on GoodReads and decide if I am keeping or removing the books.  Want to catch up? Click here to go to the last post.  As a reminder, here are the rules:

I am starting with 4,676 books this week, and honestly, I have a ton on my kindle app just waiting for me to add to my TBR list.  But maybe I should wait until I remove some more first.  Or I could read them and then they won’t ever have to make it to this list.  I’ll try that one.  Let’s get started.

 

1. Everyday Peace: Standing Firm in His Provision by Katie Orr

You saw another one of Katie Orr’s studies last week.  I have had the pleasure of doing the Philippians study with Katie and love the FOCUSed15 method.  I can always use some peace in my life, so I am keeping this one.

 

 

2. Anxious for Nothing: Finding Calm in a Chaotic World by Max Lucado

I believe I got this book one month in my Sparkle Hustle Grow box.  I don’t subscribe to it anymore, but it was great getting a new book each month.  Most of the time, they were geared towards business owners.  I have heard good things about Max Lucado, so I look forward to reading this book.  I am keeping it.

 

 

3. Getting to Yes: Negotiating Agreement Without Giving In by Roger Fisher

Apparently, I own this book.  But I am not interested in reading it.  I am removing it and maybe one day since I own the physical copy, I will get to it.

 

 

 

4. Critical Chain by Eliyahu M. Goldratt

This book was going to be a book club read, but we never made it to this one.  I honestly don’t think it will be something I want to read, so I am going to be removing it.

 

 

 

5. God at Work: Live Each Day with Purpose by Ken Costa

I think I heard about Ken Costa from a podcast; I’m not sure which one.  I always see his books on my shelf and say I need to read them, and it just hasn’t happened yet.  I am keeping this one even though I am not in a traditional work environment at the moment; it may still come in hand.

 

 

6. Know Your Why: Finding and Fulfilling Your Calling in Life by Ken Costa

I am okay on calling books for a while, so I am removing this one.

 

 

 

7. Rick Warren’s Bible Study Methods: 40 Days in the Word by Rick Warren

I always love a good book that can help me dig deeper into the Word, and I am a fan of Rick Warren.  He is a great Bible teacher, so I am keeping this one.

 

 

 

8. Marriage and the Family: Biblical Essentials by Andreas Kostenberger

Marriage is the hardest thing I have ever done so I will take all the knowledge and wisdom anyone has on marriage.  I am keeping this one.

 

 

 

9. Becoming a Woman of Influence: Making a Lasting Impact on Others by Carol Kent

I am not sure where this book came from or how it ended up on my list.  I’m removing this one.

 

 

 

10. The Body is Not an Apology: The Power of Radical Self-Love by Sonya Renee Taylor

This book has been recommended quite a bit in some groups I am in on Facebook.  Unfortunately, when I downloaded it on Hoopla and started to read it, I couldn’t get into it.  Maybe it just wasn’t the right season.  I’m removing it.

 

 

11. Insights on Romans by Charles R. Swindoll

This commentary was added when I took a free Romans from Dallas Theological Seminary.  I didn’t end up needing the book, so I’m removing it.

 

 

 

12. Capital Gaines: Smart Things I Learned Doing Stupid Stuff by Chip Gaines

I absolutely loved The Magnolia Story by the Gaines, so it was a must that I added Chip’s book to my list.  He is so funny on the show and in the book, but it’s also clear how smart he is. I am keeping this one.

 

 

13. Living Life on Purpose: Discovering God’s Best for Your Life by Lysa TerKeurst

This starts my long list of Lysa TerKeurst books.  I love her.  I’ve had the pleasure of hearing her teach.  I’ve enjoyed I believe 1 or 2 of her books.  But the last book I read from her, I did not enjoy as much as I expected.  Which makes me wary of the others.  With that said, I am removing this one.

 

 

14. Made to Crave: Satisfying Your Deepest Desire with God, Not Food by Lysa TerKeurst

Although I do love food, its not that big of an issue for me to read a book about overcoming it.  I do have a physical copy of this book though, so maybe one day I will read it, but for now, I am removing it.

 

 

 

15. Unglued: Making Wise Choices in the Midst of Raw Emotions by Lysa TerKeurst

I am the first to admit that I sometimes let my emotions get the best of me.  Even though I know I am not to be led by them.  So I am keeping this one to learn more about how to control them.

 

 

 

16. It’s Not Supposed to Be This Way: Finding Unexpected Strength When Disappointments Leave You Shattered by Lysa TerKeurst

This is her newest book, and I already resonate with the title so much I know I will be reading this one hopefully soon.  I am keeping it on the list.

 

 

 

17. What Happens When Women Say Yes to God: Experiencing Life in Extraordinary Ways by Lysa TerKeurst

I am removing this one.

 

 

 

18. What Happens When Women Walk in Faith: Trusting God Takes You to Amazing Places by Lysa TerKeurst

I am removing this one.

 

 

 

19. So Good They Can’t Ignore You: Why Skills Trump Passion in the Quest for Work You Love by Cal Newport

I have always been such a big believe in hard work and that getting you where you need to go.  Which is probably how this book ended up on my list.  Now I believe you can do what you are passionate about AND work hard.  So even though this is on almost all recommended list, I am removing it.

 

 

20. The Black Swan: The Impact of the Highly Improbable by Nassim Nicholas Taleb

This book has me on the fence.  The reviews are some good and some bad.  But the synopsis is just mysterious enough that it makes me want to read more.  It seems like it will be more of a philosophy book, and I haven’t had much luck with those lately.  But I’m keeping it, and we will see.

 

Final Count: Removing 11; Keeping 9

TBR down to 4,665

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Down the TBR Hole #21-40

Welcome to Down the TBR Hole #21-40.  Have you been feeling inspired to go through your list of books that you have to read?  Or have you maybe found some books that I mentioned to add to your list?  Need to catch up?  Head here to see the last post.  As a reminder, here are the rules:

I am starting this week with 4,678 books.  Not sure how I ended up with more books than I started with last time.  I’m sure this reading slump I am in is not helping.  But of course, there is never a shortage of books to add to my list.  I also skipped last week so let’s double up this week.  Let’s get started.

1. Business Boutique: A Woman’s Guide to Making Money Doing What She Loves by Christy Wright

In a past life, I was all into finance and financial planning and thought that would be my career.  I also owned my own business for a bit. I found Christy Wright by way of Dave Ramsey and started listening to her podcast. I started reading this book, but for whatever reason, I didn’t finish it.  But from what I remember, it was good. I own it on Audible, so I’m keeping it.

2. The Secrets You Keep by Kate White

My best friend recommended this book to me.  I think it took 15 years for me to realize that we no longer have the same taste in books.  She leans heavy into suspense and psychological thrillers while I am more into non-fiction books and romance.  But that doesn’t mean I won’t try and read one of her recommendations.  But I wasted an audible credit on this one. Thirty minutes in and I could go further. I’m removing this one.

3. Presence: Bringing Your Boldest Self to Your Biggest Challenges by Amy Cuddy

This book was recommended to me by an SVP that I admired at my old job.  She continuously kicked butt in a male-dominated world and specifically with a couple of challenging males that I had to work with daily that she had previous experience with.  I’m forever thankful that she took the time out to help mentor me. I started to read this book after she recommended it, but we were so busy my projects took over my life, and I had to put the book down. But I have a physical copy of this book plus the Audible version so I’ll be keeping it.

4. The Goal: A Process of Ongoing Improvement by Eliyahu M. Goldratt 

This was the first book that we were to read as a team at my old job. Recommended by the same SVP from above.  The only problem was my team was crazy busy.  We kept having to move the meeting that we had to talk about the book.  I’m not even sure I had time to finish one chapter. I do remember that it had an interesting concept, and I also happen to own a physical copy and the Audible version.  I think I will be keeping this one.

5. The Power of Habit: Why We Do What We Do in Life and Business by Charles Duhigg

This book has been on almost every recommendation list for businesses owners that I have come across.  So I downloaded it on Audible.  I feel like building habits is part of my theme for the year, so I am keeping this one.

 

6. The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People: Powerful Lessons in Personal Change by Stephen R. Covey

Like the book above, I have yet to come across a list that didn’t have this book recommended. I think I downloaded this one on Audible at the same time as the last one.  But it’s another one I haven’t had a chance to listen to. It’s a book on habits and fits my theme, so I’m keeping it.

7. God, Are You There? by Kay Arthur

I discovered Kay Arthur last year through Right Now Media and the inductive Bible study method. I instantly fell in love with her style and how her message of just using the Bible to interpret the Bible was so clear. I went on a hunt and ordered a few of her books (as you can tell).  I did read one of them and enjoyed it so I will be keeping this one.

 

8. Lord, Teach Me to Study the Bible in 28 Days by Kay Arthur

While I think I understand already what she will teach in this book because of watching her studies, I am keeping this book since I have a physical copy of it.  I also think it will be a quick read.

 

9. Discover the Bible for Yourself: Helpful Introductions to Every Book, Practical Approaches for Study, Applications for Everyday Life by Kay Arthur

You guessed it; I’m keeping this one.

 

10. Don’t Settle for Safe: Embracing the Uncomfortable to Become Unstoppable by Sarah Jakes Roberts 

First and foremost, I stan for Sarah Jakes Roberts.  If people can stan for musicians and actors, I can stan for a pastor.  What I love about her is she keeps it honest.  She made mistakes, and she had to work through them.  I’ve read another book of hers and probably every sermon she has preached.  Plus I’ve had the pleasure of seeing her teach in person.  I’m keeping this one.

11. Brave Enough to Succeed: 40 Strategies for Getting Unstuck by Valorie Burton

My previous business mentor recommended this book to me.  I’ve never connected with Burton based on what she posts on social media, but I was willing to give this book a chance.  I wonder, would this help me with my reading slump?  I’m feeling kind of stuck.  I’m keeping it.

 

12. Simplify: Ten Practices to Unclutter Your Soul by Bill Hybels

This was the second book that was recommended by my business mentor.  I was a Professional Organizer, so a book about organizing your soul? I’m all for it.  I’m keeping this one.

 

13. Battlefield of the Mind Bible: Renew Your Mind Through the Power of God’s Word by Joyce Meyer

I started to read her book by the same title and knew I wanted to get the Bible as well.  But I have the Bible and was using it when reading the book.  I don’t think it belongs on this list anymore.  I’m going to be removing it and putting it on my read list

 

14. Hebrews Bible Study Book: The Nearness of King Jesus by Lisa Harper

This is a bible study that I started but never finished.  Honestly, the turnoff was I had to either rent the videos or pay a large sum to own the videos.  For some reason, Lifeway has the video studies priced so high that I can’t always justify the cost. It was a good study, and I love Lisa Harper, especially after hearing her in person.  I’m keeping this one with the hopes of one day being able to complete it.

15. Mrs. Meyer’s Clean Home: No-Nonsense Advice that Will Inspire You to Clean Like the Dickens by Thelma Meyer

I went through a phase where I was trying to do a better job at setting the atmosphere of my home. I already loved having a clean house, so I was open to see if there were alternative ways to doing things.  So I felt like I was buying all the cleaning books.  I’m removing it, but it will make some cute decor.

 

16. Clean My Space: The Secret to Cleaning Better, Faster, and Loving Your Home Every Day by Melissa Maker

Another book from my home cleaning phase.  I’m removing it from my list but will keep it for decor.

 

17. How to Start a Home-based Professional Organizing Business by Dawn Noble

I might have mentioned a time or two that I previously had a Professional Organizing business. So although I bought this book while doing my research, I found so much info online that I didn’t need it.  I’m removing it.

 

18. Stronger than the Struggle: Uncomplicating Your Spiritual Battle by Havilah Cunnington

I bought the study for this book after hearing Havilah speak.  I enjoyed the study and wanted to read the book behind it, so I purchased it.  I enjoy listening to her preach, and I expect the same from her books.  I’ll be keeping it.

 

19. Anonymous: Jesus Hidden Years…And Yours by Alicia Britt Chole

A friend recommended this book to me after they enjoyed it.  I haven’t had a chance to start reading it yet, but I do like the concept. I have a physical copy of this book, and I am keeping it.

 

20. Everyday Hope: Holding Fast to His Promise by Katie Orr

Now that I have done a study with Katie (Philippians study), I want to do all of her studies.  She is an amazing Bible teacher.  You will see next week that I have a few of her studies.  I’m keeping this one.

 

Final count: Removing 5; Keeping 15; TBR down to 4,674

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Down The TBR Hole #11-20

Welcome to Down the TBR Hole #11-20.  Head here to get more information on this meme that I am doing.  As a reminder, here are the rules:

I am starting this week with 4,676 books on my To Be Read list.

1. Getting Things Done: The Art of Stress-Free Productivity by David Allen

This book is on every productivity recommendation list I have ever come across.  I have the physical copy of this book and had started to read it but ended up putting it down.  This was during the season where I couldn’t find joy in reading because of other things happening.  I will eventually read it, so I’m keeping it.

 

2. Grace for the Good Girl: Letting Go of the Try-Hard Life by Emily P. Freeman

Another book that I have a physical copy of.  As someone who is recovering from being all about doing things and doing them right to please others, I bought this one when I was in Altar’d State out of town.  I started another book by Emily P. Freeman recently, and it’s pretty good, so I think I will be keeping this one for now.

 

3. Sacred Influence: How God Uses Wives to Shape the Souls of Their Husbands by Gary L. Thomas

I will take all the books on marriage I can take.  It is literally the hardest thing I have done.  I am keeping this one.

4. Love & Respect: The Love She Most Desires; The Respect He Desperately Needs by Emerson Eggerichs

A friend let me borrow this book, and I fell in love with it.  I took my time reading it, took a ton of notes, started to implement some of the recommendations, and then decided to order my own along with the workbook.  Then I stopped reading it.  I started again on my sabbatical but couldn’t get back into the flow I was in before.  But this book is beyond amazing, and I will read it and soon.  I’m keeping it.

5. Sink Reflections: Overwhelmed? Disorganized? Living In Chaos? The FlyLady’s Simple FLYing Lessons Will Show You How to Get Your Home and Your Life in Order–and It All Starts with Shining Your Sink! by Marla Cilley

I use to follow the FlyLady, and it did wonders for keeping and maintaining my house clean and organized.  I still follow the essence of her advice as it has become routine for me, but I’m not strict with what she recommends.  I also believe I can find everything in this book on her website.  So although I own a kindle edition of this book, I am removing this one.

6. Boundaries in Marriage by Henry Cloud

I’ve had Dr. Cloud’s books recommended to me a million times.  I felt like he was a legend at my previous home church, and everyone swore by his books like they were the Bible (which should have been my first clue).  A friend let me borrow the audiobook.  I bought the workbook. I think I downloaded the eBook.  I could not get into this book.  Or the regular Boundaries book. And you know what I am done trying.  I’m removing it.

 

7. Lucky Suit by Lauren Blakely

This book was one of the books I picked from the free Audible Originals one month.  It looks like it will be a quick romance to listen to so I am keeping it.

 

8. Thrive: The Third Metric to Redefining Success and Creating a Life of Well-Being, Wisdom, and Wonder by Arianna Huffington

I love Arianna Huffington.  She’s done and launched amazing things.  Her story of burnout resonated with me from when I worked in Corporate America.  I have already read one of her books and loved it.  I own this one on Audible, so I am keeping it.

 

9. Win From Within: Finding Yourself by Facing Yourself by John Gray

I have been a fan of John Gray for a while and until recently would watch most of his sermons.  He went through some criticism lately, and his response to that was to become an angry preacher, so I stopped watching him.  But I do plan on reading his books, and maybe one day I’ll check back in on his messages.  I own this one on Audible, so I’m keeping it.

10. Feeding the Dragon by Sharon Washington

Another book I received for free from Audible Originals.  I love reading autobiographies from women of color, and her living on the top floor of a library made me want to add this to my collection.  Plus her father being a custodian and her love for literature was something that made me relate to her as my father had a job as a building custodian at one of the apartments we lived in, in New Jersey.  And I shouldn’t need to say how I relate to her love of literature…since you are on my book blog :).  Needless to say, I am keeping it.

Final count: Removing 2; Keeping 8; TBR down to 4,674

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Down The TBR Hole: #1-10

I never thought that I would be one to do a book meme (book lingo for a challenge) on my site, but I found one that I believe will help me out. If you know me, you know I love all things organizing (This site initially belonged to my Professional Organizing business). So anything that will help me organize this crazy TBR (To Be Read) list I have is fantastic. I found Down The TBR Hole on the blog, A Book. A Thought. The original creator of the meme has taken her site down but here are the rules:

Why am I doing this one? At the present moment, I have 4,679 books on my To Be Read list. Yes, I do. My problem is, whenever someone, somewhere recommends a book, I add it to my list. 25% of the time, I will check on what the book is about to see if it is something I will read, but most of the time, I add.

I know, logically that I will never get through this list and read all of these books. But I also never have to worry about being without a book recommendation. I do expect to remove some books off this list by doing this meme (weekly is my goal but don’t hold me to that just in case life happens). Let’s get started.

1. Knowing God Intimately: Being as Close to Him as You Want to Be by Joyce Meyer 

I own a physical copy of this book (or maybe my mom technically owns it, and I borrowed it indefinitely) and I have this dream of reading every book I own. I love Joyce Meyer’s teaching, but I’ve only read one of her books, half-way. But I also have a ton of her books (or my mom does). Plus this topic is something I could always use a refresher on. I’m keeping this one mostly because I own it.

2. The Secret by Rhonda Byrne

This book is only on my list because I have heard so much about it. From my experience, that isn’t always a good thing. I’m not even sure how I feel about the Law of Attraction. I did try and watch the Netflix special and couldn’t make it past the first 10 minutes. I’m removing this one.

 

3. Discerning the Voice of God – The Bible Study Book by Priscilla Shirer

I’ve already done this with a small group and own the Bible Study book, so I am assuming I meant to add the actual book Priscilla Shirer wrote. That book also happens to be on this list so I will be removing this one.

 

 

4. Girls with Swords: How to Carry Your Cross Like a Hero by Lisa Bevere

I own this book because I started it with a large group at church, but we never finished the book. Now that I think about it, our large group never finished the last three books we were supposed to read, including one by our lead Pastor. Nevertheless, I didn’t like this book enough to finish it on my own. It could have been the slow pace of reading a chapter or two a week to stay on track with the group. Or maybe the season I was in. I’ve heard Lisa Bevere preach once and enjoyed her, but I wasn’t a fan of one of her husband’s books, so I’m a little concerned with how I will feel about her books. But since I own a physical copy of the book, I’m keeping it on the list.

 

5. I Want It All: Exchanging Your Average Life for Deeper Faith, Greater Power, and More Impact by Gwen Smith

Not sure how this book ended up in my collection, but it is another one that I physically own (and this one actually belongs to me). I’m on this kick lately of knowing that there is more to life than just living so the pull to exchange an average life is enough to say I am keeping this book on the list.

 

6. Women of the Bible by Frances VanderVelde

I don’t know how I ended up owning this one, but it’s on my Kindle app, so it isn’t going anywhere. I think I went through a season of wanting to know all I could about women in the Bible. I probably wanted to see how they were able to do life. I’m keeping this one.

 

 

7. Chazown: A Different Way to See Your Life by Craig Groeschel

Guess what? I don’t own this one. I’m also a little over reading books about the vision or call for my life. That is to give God glory, and however He wants me to do that, He has told me or will let me know. I’m removing this one.

 

 

8. Women Living Well: Find Your Joy in God, Your Man, Your Kids, and Your Home by Courtney Joseph

I use to love Good Morning Girls, and I am sure I downloaded this book on Kindle when I was following their reading plans. I still like them, but they aren’t in-depth enough for me in this season, but they are great for people just beginning to get into the Word of God. As for her book, I love the cover and have wanted to know more about Courtney. I know she has had some life changes since this book, but I would still like to read it. I am keeping it since it’s on my Kindle app.


9. Start Balancing by Kristy Dickerson

I found out about Kristy Dickerson by using her Start Planners. When she came out with this book, it was so adorable, and I was all for trying to organize, simplifying, and balancing this thing called life. I started the book but didn’t finish it. Unfortunately, since then, I have realized that Kristy herself isn’t all that balanced. She has created and launched quite a few businesses in the past few years, and I’ve noticed that she just isn’t juggling like she was. Which is more like real life.  Maybe she needs a bigger team; perhaps it’s just a growing or stretching season. Either way, I’m not interested in the book anymore, especially since I realized there isn’t really a thing called a balanced life. I own a physical copy of this book, but I am removing it because I don’t plan on finishing it.

10. Rhythms of Grace: Discovering God’s Tempo for Your Life by Kerri Weems

Remember up above when I said my church started three books during Large Group and never finished? Including one by our Pastor? This is it, which is hilarious considering shortly after we entered a season where we picked back up honoring the Sabbath. The book was great. I had to force myself to slow down to stay on the same page as the group, which is honestly what made me put it down. I’m sure I only had a few more chapters to go also. But I’m keeping this book on the list because it was so good.

Final count: Removing 4; Keeping 6; TBR down to 4,675

I know…that number seems crazy. And it is. But just think, I removed 40% of the books on today’s review, which means there is hope for my list. Plus I am reading a bunch still. I have eight books right now borrowed on my apps that once I read and finish them, will be able to come off. I’m making progress.

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